LiveByDay Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 So i have been talking with this girl for about 4 months. i started talking to her after she just got out of a long relationship so i knew she didn't want a relationship right away. I continued to talk to her and hung out with her with groups of friends and flirted with her all the time. then it moved into just us hanging out and going on dates and we started holding hands and what not. we both knew we liked eachother, but were just going with the flow. i happened to over read texts and she was talking to a guy about hanging out but i didnt think anything about it but we slowly stopped talking to eachother less and then a week or so later she waanted to hang out so i snuck into her house and relaxed and had a lot of fun and once i left she immediately said she missed me already. but her friend said she isnt looking for a relationship right now. could someone give me advice on what to do thanks.
olaf. Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 sounds to me that she likes you : ). i think she wants something casual, for now.
jnl001 Posted March 8, 2011 Posted March 8, 2011 Hmmm... I would not be bothered by what her friends say. That's all hearsay and not relevant. These "friends" may also have ulterior motives. Only a woman's actions truly demonstrate how she feels about you. The best thing to do is stop "hanging out". Take her out on dates instead (just the two of you). Observe carefully how she reacts toward you while on these dates. As long as she always accepts every date (and never breaks any of them for any reason) and behaves well on these dates, I would say you are in the running. That's the litmus test, guy. By the way, I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "snuck into her house". That sounds a little strange. Next time, you might want to use the doorbell instead. Or better yet, call first! Good luck. John.
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