Well, I Found Out the Answer

[MarlyStar]

I don't know if any of you remember the army ranger pathfinder I wrote about about two months ago.

 

The problem was between September and about January, this guy asked me out several times, but never with a firm time and date. "We need to go out for a holiday drink...I have some XX wine chilling at home I can't drink alone, you need to drink it with me...we should check out XXX restaurant for lunch...let's have such and such a conversation over drinks, over lunch..." Then one day after such an invitation I said, "Pick a time and date" and he back tracked.

 

We'd been having lunch every now and then in the cafeteria, and I'd gotten signals he was interested, body language, casual touching, lingering and trying to prolong the lunches, joking, emailing, extreme attentiveness, etc...

 

I couldn't figure out what was going on with these mixed messages. After he couldn't pick a time and date, I cut him off and have avoided him these last two or so months. He's sent a few emails. I ignored him and avoided him around the building.

 

Well, today at lunch I stayed in and was just trolling around the internet. I work at SouthCom, a major military installation. I went on a online dating site devoted to military people--and I came across him.

 

Apparently, he likes SSBBWs--super sized big beautiful women.

 

Well, that leaves me out. I've got a great figure. Then I read further about what he likes. It sort of sickens me. "I desire to be a feeder and take a beautiful, sexy lady and feed her until she grows huge." And he talked about his ultra conservative political views and how he insists a woman go to church often with him and have a high sex drive.

 

This is a fetish and not a harmless one. He wants to seduce a woman into dangerous unhealthy obesity for his sexual pleasure. I feel disgusted that I ever felt interested in him, and dirty that he showed some interest in me.

 

I don't know about his first wife, altho I know by the time they divorced she was an alcoholic with mental problems and incapable of self care. That was a term he used, I always thought it meant her alcoholism had advanced to such a point she couldn't function; but now I wonder if it was combined with being 'fed' into obesity.

 

His second wife was cute. When they married she was abt 5'5 and abt 130 pounds. When they divorced, she was about 180-190 lbs. I don't know if his fetish had anything to do with it or not.

 

I hope I never run into this guy again. I couldn't stand to look him in the eyes.

[fishtaco]

Hmmm... strange fetish.

 

Not the obese women part. I've heard of men that are into that. But that his fetish includes being the "feeder".

 

Well, you keep your great figure. He may not appreciate it, but many other men will.

[Lilmisus]

Wow, that sounds pretty disgusting. And although I'm sure it wasn't, I wonder if maybe someone pranked him and put that on his site? Just naive hope. Considering his second wife though, I'm sure it was his own posting.

 

You're right in staying away from him, and I agree with the above poster, keep your great shape. And keep your health. No guy, no matter what his fetish is should make you lose your health for his own gain. That's just wrong.

[phillyfan]

I don't know if any of you remember the army ranger pathfinder I wrote about about two months ago.

 

The problem was between September and about January, this guy asked me out several times, but never with a firm time and date. "We need to go out for a holiday drink...I have some XX wine chilling at home I can't drink alone, you need to drink it with me...we should check out XXX restaurant for lunch...let's have such and such a conversation over drinks, over lunch..." Then one day after such an invitation I said, "Pick a time and date" and he back tracked.

 

We'd been having lunch every now and then in the cafeteria, and I'd gotten signals he was interested, body language, casual touching, lingering and trying to prolong the lunches, joking, emailing, extreme attentiveness, etc...

 

I couldn't figure out what was going on with these mixed messages. After he couldn't pick a time and date, I cut him off and have avoided him these last two or so months. He's sent a few emails. I ignored him and avoided him around the building.

 

Well, today at lunch I stayed in and was just trolling around the internet. I work at SouthCom, a major military installation. I went on a online dating site devoted to military people--and I came across him.

 

Apparently, he likes SSBBWs--super sized big beautiful women.

 

Well, that leaves me out. I've got a great figure. Then I read further about what he likes. It sort of sickens me. "I desire to be a feeder and take a beautiful, sexy lady and feed her until she grows huge." And he talked about his ultra conservative political views and how he insists a woman go to church often with him and have a high sex drive.

 

This is a fetish and not a harmless one. He wants to seduce a woman into dangerous unhealthy obesity for his sexual pleasure. I feel disgusted that I ever felt interested in him, and dirty that he showed some interest in me.

 

I don't know about his first wife, altho I know by the time they divorced she was an alcoholic with mental problems and incapable of self care. That was a term he used, I always thought it meant her alcoholism had advanced to such a point she couldn't function; but now I wonder if it was combined with being 'fed' into obesity.

 

His second wife was cute. When they married she was abt 5'5 and abt 130 pounds. When they divorced, she was about 180-190 lbs. I don't know if his fetish had anything to do with it or not.

 

I hope I never run into this guy again. I couldn't stand to look him in the eyes.

 

Holy shiz-nit, u dodged a bullet there girl.

[Duckduckgoose]

Holy shiz-nit, u dodged a bullet there girl.

 

A bullet?

 

You dodged a ****ing nuke! Sounds like this "man" finds women and breaks them. He's one of those that doesn't need to get married again.

[phillyfan]

A bullet?

 

You dodged a ****ing nuke! Sounds like this "man" finds women and breaks them. He's one of those that doesn't need to get married again.

 

Amen to that.

[dreamingoftigers]

I don't know if any of you remember the army ranger pathfinder I wrote about about two months ago.

 

The problem was between September and about January, this guy asked me out several times, but never with a firm time and date. "We need to go out for a holiday drink...I have some XX wine chilling at home I can't drink alone, you need to drink it with me...we should check out XXX restaurant for lunch...let's have such and such a conversation over drinks, over lunch..." Then one day after such an invitation I said, "Pick a time and date" and he back tracked.

 

We'd been having lunch every now and then in the cafeteria, and I'd gotten signals he was interested, body language, casual touching, lingering and trying to prolong the lunches, joking, emailing, extreme attentiveness, etc...

 

I couldn't figure out what was going on with these mixed messages. After he couldn't pick a time and date, I cut him off and have avoided him these last two or so months. He's sent a few emails. I ignored him and avoided him around the building.

 

Well, today at lunch I stayed in and was just trolling around the internet. I work at SouthCom, a major military installation. I went on a online dating site devoted to military people--and I came across him.

 

Apparently, he likes SSBBWs--super sized big beautiful women.

 

Well, that leaves me out. I've got a great figure. Then I read further about what he likes. It sort of sickens me. "I desire to be a feeder and take a beautiful, sexy lady and feed her until she grows huge." And he talked about his ultra conservative political views and how he insists a woman go to church often with him and have a high sex drive.

 

This is a fetish and not a harmless one. He wants to seduce a woman into dangerous unhealthy obesity for his sexual pleasure. I feel disgusted that I ever felt interested in him, and dirty that he showed some interest in me.

 

I don't know about his first wife, altho I know by the time they divorced she was an alcoholic with mental problems and incapable of self care. That was a term he used, I always thought it meant her alcoholism had advanced to such a point she couldn't function; but now I wonder if it was combined with being 'fed' into obesity.

 

His second wife was cute. When they married she was abt 5'5 and abt 130

pounds. When they divorced, she was about 180-190 lbs. I don't know if his fetish had anything to do with it or not.

 

I hope I never run into this guy again. I couldn't stand to look him in the eyes.

 

Do you happen to have his number?

 

 

Just kidding

[Eddie Edirol]

You should print a copy of his profile, and if he bugs you again, you pull it out and show it to him. He will wind up avoiding YOU!

[MarlyStar]

I'm glad there are men who appreciate larger women. Larger women and men deserve love too. It was the 'feeder' part that got me too.

 

Dear god, I hope I never run into this guy again in the elevator. This guy is about 5'9 and 180 lbs who clearly works out every day. He's very well liked and respected. If they only knew...

 

I gotta tell ya, I've had terrible luck with men in the last six months. Since I cut off the 'Feeder', I started working on a project with a one-star general. Charming, well-liked, respected, very competent with an interesting background. He was within very strict professional bounds (which is absolutely demanded where we work) was romancing me. Never stepped out of line, but I knew, and I gave subtle signals of approval. Romantic liaisons are okay here, but not between people working on a project or in a chain of command. However, he'd say, when this project is over, I want to take you to this or that place.

 

Then someone told me that he had a long distance girlfriend, who drives down and spends every Thursday and Friday evening with him (her work schedule weekend) and they went on vacations together. So I asked him about it. It's okay with me, but I like to have all the cards on the table, and altho I didn't say so (only: I understand you have a girlfriend, a long distance girlfriend--that's all), I don't think I would go out with someone who has an established relationship.

 

He got very upset. He wanted to know who told me (I wouldn't tell), tried to tell me he only saw her occasionally, he wasn't going to marry her, he was a single man and sleeping with women was a benefit of being a single man. He was going to find out who told me and 'expose' them. Then he started almost pleading with me that she was just a single mother, a nice girl, who'd been good to him, he'd known 10 years. Then he got mad and bullying almost, who told me, he was going to expose him, he was going to find out. He could find out anything he wanted about anyone. He started going off on who was surveilling him, and said how did anyone know about her, he never told anyone, even his neighbors knew her by an alias. I was stuck in a room with him alone for 62 minutes while he went on like this. It was horrible.

 

As soon as we went our separate ways, I told my supervisor, who told me to write it up. My supervisor was right.

 

Two days later, he made a complaint against me: said I had a romantic obsession with him, was stalking him, was misusing information in our joint project, and had stolen his identity to boot to open fake credit in his name. Not only that he wanted me fired and prosecuted to the full extent of the law. No, kidding.

 

Well, I work for the Fed govt, and my boss has a rank equal to a one star general, and my boss's boss is equal to a 4 star general. What this guy didn't know is that because of the nature of my work and our project all my computer work is keylogged, all my calls recorded, and the room we used for our project was also recorded. Within about 4 hours, he was proven a liar. But he didn't know it. He kept calling my boss with more and more details, once even offering her a bribe of using 3 rooms reserved for his men at Disney's Field of Green (this was in front of 4 other people).

 

Then he arranged a meeting in her office and gave her more details. By this time she had had a team of internal affairs experts come down from HQ to handle the 'complaint' formally and inpartially. And they sat in on the meeting. He apparently made a fool of himself, had more accusations, threw his weight around, insisted I be fired, etc... and made himself way too much at home in what was a formal office setting. And I guess tried to solicit a gift from my boss, something he saw on her crendenza he wanted (he didn't get it). He also admitted he lied to our agency to be able to work on this project.

 

Last Thursday, there was the final meeting to conclude the complaint. My boss's boss (the one equivalent to the 4 star general), insists the guy be removed from the project (which is going to make him angry) and on top of it, he is going to lose our agency's sponsorship of his clearance (altho he'll probably still have one with the DoD--altho not having ours will hamper his career a bit). And what's more is my boss's boss wants to be the one to tell him the 'bad' news. He told us what he was going to say to this guy, and it's very rude.

 

The whole thing makes me feel sick. I liked this guy personally, and can't imagine how this turned out like this, and I know how important this project and clearance and career is to this guy. I know he brought it on himself, but gosh, I wish this would all just go away, and we can all just get along again.

 

I swear to god, I am so discouraged about men my age.

[MarlyStar]

A bullet?

 

You dodged a ****ing nuke! Sounds like this "man" finds women and breaks them. He's one of those that doesn't need to get married again.

 

I dodged two of them since Xmas. I'm just shell shocked.

 

And I have to say, most of the guys I work with (and I work with 800 of them) are great, good, good, good guys. Not freaks at all. I just hit two in a row.

[dreamingoftigers]

Do you have his number, I like em' dishonest and self-destructive!

 

Kidding:sick:

 

Maybe try looking outside of the military for now, that way things aren't too close to home and you meet a guy with totally different reference points.

[MarlyStar]

You should print a copy of his profile, and if he bugs you again, you pull it out and show it to him. He will wind up avoiding YOU!

 

The Feeder at first emailed a few times, but when I didn't respond, he stopped.

 

I have to say as unpleasant as these two encounters were, what saved me was being true to myself and straight forward about it. The Feeder hurt my feelings with his carrot and stick act, and instead of just overlooking his behavior, or excusing it, or appreciating the part of our 'friendship' I liked, the lunches, etc... I acted on what was true to me, my hurt feelings and avoided him. And thus saved myself a heap of trouble down the road.

 

And as unpleasant as the consequence of asking the second guy about his long distance girlfriend was, can you imagine what would have happened had I not known or kept the information to myself or thought I could 'win' him away from his girlfriend? I would have become more and more attached, maybe have fallen in love--and then had to deal with a vengeful, vindictive, unpredictable, willful man.

 

One good thing about the second encounter: I found out how well liked and respected I am where I work. I never realized that my boss's boss really knew who I was, altho I had briefed him on a couple projects over the years and had done the work on a couple very sensitive special projects for him (that were then presented to him by my boss).

 

There was also our top admin officer (the equivalent of a 2 star), who I never liked because I always thought he was mean to people, who absolutely went to bat for me. Not because they were covering up for me (had I been guilty of what I had been accuse of, nothing would have saved my job, no matter how well liked), but because he liked and respected me (boy, am I sorry I once muttered that he was a prick).

 

And my own boss went so far out of her way to gather information and research the problem and make sure all the t's were crossed and i's dotted so when this was sent out of region and to HQ for review it was solid, I was touched. And the six colleagues that got sucked into the investigation and/or he co-opted have been very, very nice to me since. The guy lost friends over this, in fact, not only is he losing his clearnce and project standing, all the people who he works with regularly are being changed and orders have gone out that NO ONE is ever to be alone with him again; always in pairs.

 

Still I just wish none of this had happened. It's been a rough couple weeks.

[fishtaco]

I was thinking the same thing. You are lucky that your boss and people up the chain of command stepped it up for you. And you had evidence.

 

Most people, are crap. Sorry, but that's the truth. Good people are out there, but they are difficult to find.

[daphne]

Most people, are crap. Sorry, but that's the truth. Good people are out there, but they are difficult to find.

 

I'm stalking fish.

 

Wow. This thread went from being funny and proving that it's best to just move on and forget when someone's not that interested, because they're not right for us. To just... wow. Something out of a narcissist's handbook. Sorry you had to deal with it, but you know you were extremely lucky that there was recorded proof of the conversation or this would have probably turned out very differently for you.

 

Sounds like the good guy won for once. Most of the time the psychos with power win.

[fishtaco]

Sounds like the good guy won for once. Most of the time the psychos with power win.

 

No kidding. I feel like a cynical pessimist when I think like this, but this is depressingly true... psychos with power win most of the time.

 

I'm stalking fish.

 

Stalking me? I assume because I have sexy posts.

[daphne]

No kidding. I feel like a cynical pessimist when I think like this, but this is depressingly true... psychos with power win most of the time.

 

 

 

Stalking me? I assume because I have sexy posts.

 

Yes, but I try not to focus on that part. Not easy.

 

Sexy? Sure!! But I think it's more that you have a pragmatic approach, are non commital to the forum, don't bully and have a live and let live attitude. All very good things.

[fishtaco]

Sexy? Sure!! But I think it's more that you have a pragmatic approach, are non commital to the forum, don't bully and have a live and let live attitude. All very good things.

 

What about my posts make my penis look big?

 

No? Dammit... it never works. I guess I'll just have to save up for a sports car.

[daphne]

What about my posts make my penis look big?

 

No? Dammit... it never works. I guess I'll just have to save up for a sports car.

 

Now you're seriously fishing.

[MarlyStar]

Something out of a narcissist's handbook.

 

You think the second guy might be a narcissist? He's pretty well liked, very competent and dedicated to his job, well liked by his colleagues and subordinants, and very pleasant to be around. He's worked with the same people for years and years, and usually you can't hide disagreeableness that long. Although it is really conceited to think on the little bit of time we spent together (maybe 6 hours over 3 months, including a few 20 minute phone calls) that I'd be so enamored that I'd steal his identity and start stalking him. And he really showed his hiney (so I'm told) once he went on the warpath against me.

 

I was just shocked by the attack; and my boss and those involved in the investigation were really put off by how vehement he was about me getting exposed, fired and prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

 

The way he flipped really has me shocked and reeling.

[fishtaco]

You think the second guy might be a narcissist? He's pretty well liked, very competent and dedicated to his job, well liked by his colleagues and subordinants, and very pleasant to be around. He's worked with the same people for years and years, and usually you can't hide disagreeableness that long. Although it is really conceited to think on the little bit of time we spent together (maybe 6 hours over 3 months, including a few 20 minute phone calls) that I'd be so enamored that I'd steal his identity and start stalking him. And he really showed his hiney (so I'm told) once he went on the warpath against me.

 

I was just shocked by the attack; and my boss and those involved in the investigation were really put off by how vehement he was about me getting exposed, fired and prosecuted to the full extent of the law.

 

The way he flipped really has me shocked and reeling.

 

I'd say he's petty and vengeful. He also has no moral principles. It's evident that giving and taking bribes is part of his everyday life.

 

He's a crappy person, he doesn't deserve to be a one star general.

[daphne]

He's worked with the same people for years and years, and usually you can't hide disagreeableness that long.

 

Narcissists can hide their true selves for a lifetime, except for with people they are intimate with (gf's, relatives etc.) I'm not a shrink, but this guy has some serious issues for doing what he did. And it's sounds like possibly a sociopath or narcissist. They have no compunction for wielding power when they can and no empathy for anyone they hurt.

 

Think about this. Do you think you're the first person he's done this too? If he felt that cocky about getting away with it with you, it's because it's probably not his first time.

[MarlyStar]

Narcissists can hide their true selves for a lifetime, except for with people they are intimate with (gf's, relatives etc.) I'm not a shrink, but this guy has some serious issues for doing what he did. And it's sounds like possibly a sociopath or narcissist. They have no compunction for wielding power when they can and no empathy for anyone they hurt.

 

Think about this. Do you think you're the first person he's done this too? If he felt that cocky about getting away with it with you, it's because it's probably not his first time.

 

Thank you, Daphne. I was so shocked that I feel almost traumatized by what happened. (Traumatized is not exactly the right word, because I wasn't that invested and didn't know him that well. But I did like him, did think of him when he wasn't around, and his attack was so sudden and viscious, I keep asking myself what I did.)

 

It sort of makes me think maybe I'm not really as responsible as I feel about him flipping on me. I kept thinking why would my knowing about his girlfriend make him hate me? Or was it that I wouldn't tell him who told me (as in he wasn't getting his way and couldn't handle it)?

 

Am I the only one he's done this too? Well, my agency investigated him and has called about 20 people who have known him about 10 years, and he is universally well liked (until now). They even sent someone out to talk to his neighbors. He hasn't always been a general (and one stars are a dime a dozen here) and in ten years of an intense career, I'd think especially in this environment, he'd have had his share of frustrations and set backs. I'm not exactly a slouch in the career department either. I have a pay rank equivalent to a colonel, and my agency is more prestigious than his, so we are roughly equals, with him having more 'time in grade' (this stuff matters a lot where I work).

 

It seems that this is the first time. However, who knows what happened with his ex. He once said they went to marriage counseling and suddenly found out that all the problems in the world were caused by him. Sure he was exaggerating, but clearly she was very angry and he was unaware and soon after she left the state and divorced him taking nothing with her. I wonder if that is sort of what you are saying.

 

Also when he flipped out on me during our last meeting and started talking about how he hung out with or used to hang out with bikers, the type that murder, and was trying to intimidate me when about all that stuff abt his girlfriend, at one point he told me how she had beat the **** out of her ex's girlfriend (news to me, that wasn't part of the gossip I'd heard which frankly was very little), he said: "But it was during a divorce. People do things during a divorce. You've been divorced, you know how people act when they divorce." And he stared at me in such a way that I knew HE'D done things he was not proud of during his divorce. Not everyone does things during their divorce that are shameful (I didn't), but HE assumed everyone did, which means he did.

 

If I can understand why he turned on me over something so small and innocent and normal and became so viscious and trying to destroy me, I think it will help me to get over it. I keep thinking it was something I did and I go over it again and again in my mind. But if it was him, not something i did, I can feel a bit better. Although throwing around psych diagnoses and not examining one's own behavior is a pitfall too.

 

But maybe there's something to what you say, and if so, thank you.

[dreamingoftigers]

Sounds like even though he might have been a nice guy and a professional that he bottles and explodes. I have known quite a few like that. Also, from what little you gave shared, his intimate life is kind of in shambles. Sounds like the total overreactive type. Big red ****ing flag!

 

I think you did far better dodging this guy then the "feeder."

 

Feeder would have brought you doughnuts and that may have ended your military career however.

[daphne]

If I can understand why he turned on me over something so small and innocent and normal and became so viscious and trying to destroy me, I think it will help me to get over it. I keep thinking it was something I did and I go over it again and again in my mind. But if it was him, not something i did, I can feel a bit better. Although throwing around psych diagnoses and not examining one's own behavior is a pitfall too.

 

Wondering why he did it is like wondering why a child picks things off the ground and puts them in his mouth. Does it really matter?

 

I think at this point, unless you did something to threaten him that you haven't mentioned here, there's nothing for you to examine about your behavior that caused him to explode. When men become aggressive like this, it's typical for women (and sometimes men too) to try to figure out what they did to cause it. Self examination is better served when you actually caused someone else damage, not the reverse. Just my opinion.

[MarlyStar]

The final inquiry on this was last week.

 

The top guy in the organization, one of the highest ranking generals in the US, summoned this guy for a meeting to give him the results of the investigation. God knows exactly what this guy thought but probably that he was going to be vindicated and get his way.

 

He came 45 minutes early which pzzed off the people he was meeting with. They made him wait. The commander didn't intend to meet with him (he's actually ummm busy) so he delegated to the Chief of Security and to one of his six second in commands, the one in charge of admin matters.

 

When the COS came to take him into the meeting rooms the guy got all arrogant. Not supposed to meet with you, I'm supposed to meet with First Name Last name (not title, which offended everyone a lot for some reason). He said he was a 'special guest' of the commander. COS got the Admin, and at first the guy thought Admin was the commander and was upset when he realized he was shuffled off to the second in command; but what could he do?

 

Oh I know, go in Admin's off and sit in the chair offered and kick back like you owned the place and again pzz everyone off with your demeanor and body language and smugness and entitlement. They were so bent out of shape about his attitude.

 

He was asked to tell Admin what his complaints were. This he did with relish, adding to them since the last time he told them. Cocksure.

 

"Well we have some questions, can you explain..."

 

He did (he lied).

 

"Well, that's funny, because we pulled all the recordings and..."

 

COS told me the guy's face froze and went pure white. He was horrified. Recordings. You mean all the phone calls, all the emails were recorded? He didn't say it but COS told me you could see it as clearly as if he had a balloon with writing over his head like a cartoon character. Worse yet, all the meetings rooms we were in were recorded too. (c'mon, this is a highly secure facility with all the highest tech--how could this guy think they weren't recorded?).

 

Anyway they were over all his lies one by one. It was very humiliating for him. He was down to having to explain a part of his sex life to them. At first I guess he tried to maintain some of his lies. Actually said something wasn't a lie because it happened at a different time than what we thought. COS said, "Well, that's funny because we have a signed statement from you here on this date..."

 

They then started calling him on lies that we actually didn't have recordings for because the conversations happened in his office. But i'd written detailed reports on our meetings and they quoted it. The guy was near to fainting. He couldn't believe they were quoting things he'd said in his own office--was his office bugged too?

 

He tried a couple times to deflect some of the blame on me but they stopped him short. "You threatened a federal official. A felony." And they tapped the disks the recordings were on and explained what the penalties were for that.

 

Then he started backpeddalling. This was all embarassing, it'd gotten out of hand, he'd wasted their time his time, he should have handled it differently, he was sorry. Admin said he owed me a big apology. He apologized and apologized and COS told him he was not to go near me even to apologize, he was to leave.me.alone. The guy started offering alternate explanations (it must be that lady across the street, it must be this or that), he was just angry he hadn't thought straight, what would they have done in his position, he was trying to protect his lady friend. He also tried for damage control, this could be kept within the agency, it really had no bearing on his work, let's separate the two issues... (actually about 4 different agencies have been involved and up to the highest reached in DC in internal affairs, etc... too late).

 

Admin refused to shake his hand when it was over. he was escorted out. They are pulling his SCI which is embarassing and hampering to his career. They are considering pullling his TS which would force him into retirement and they are also considering filing a complaint against his agency for threatening a federal official, attempted bribery, perjury, soliciting a bribe and sexual harassment (the last two charges are very slight, the 'bribe' he solicited was worth about $10, and he just once sort of speculated on my sex life in a roundabout way, but they are legit and would open up the tapes where he was bashing his superiors and talking too freely about classified matters). If they file a complaint on those charges with his agency's internal affairs (like he did to me) and he's found guilty (as he would be because of the recordings), he'd lose his pension. I don't think they would ever file official charges in court against him.

 

I think the final decision on how to proceed will depends on how he reacts in the next month or two. Does he quiet down and slink off into the shadows or does he ramp up and stir up more trouble.

 

I think he will just slink away. And everyone will just let it go. That's best.

 

The COS and Admin were jubilent after he left, sort of high fiving each other and feeling good. I just feel the whole thing was awful, unnecessary and just too bad. I'm just glad it's over.