quietGuy13 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 I'm 31. I went to Okcupid and my age range is 22 to 33. But most of the girls that turn up on results are in lower 20s and I noticed no one was emailing back ... so i looked at their desired age range and most just want guys who are at most 4 years older. So that sucks. ANd in real life the women I meet, like for example my recently found friend is 23. Seems most women my age are not out there. The ones out there in town are in 20s or are teens. Maybe that's because most women my age are already married or taken. So anyways, from my OKCUpid experience, it seems I"m already too old and that finding a GF will be haaaaard unless i find a woman in her 20s who accepts old men like my age. BTW Women my age most of them already married or taken. I have proof actually. At work the women my age are all married already or with kids and divorced. hehehe i'm still like a teen kid who's never had a GFbut i'm an old guy
oaks Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 I'm 31. I went to Okcupid and my age range is 22 to 33. Are you sure you want to meet women your age? If so I suggest setting the age range to something more like 28-34 than 22-33. That way you won't waste so much time on 22 year olds who only want guys up to 26.
Author quietGuy13 Posted March 7, 2011 Author Posted March 7, 2011 I actually would be fine with women younger than me. like the range i said "22 to 31". But i'm saying Most Young women, seems like they consider me too old. But at least my friend(age 23) is fine with it and we have a nice friendship/dating. I thought women liked older men but i guess it only happens when the guy has money (which i dont). Some other times a few years ago when i tried to talk to people in the bus and i found some young students who were probably 20 year olds. We had a great conversation in the bus, and exchanged phone numbers. they said they would keep in touch but didn't and never answered emails WHICH means they probably thought i was too old and at that time i was actually 28.
fishtaco Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 Women tend to be exceeding picky online, because the only thing you can go by are these attributes you put down on paper. That's why I prefer real life dating. There are a lot of intangibles that actually make stronger impact than matching some list on paper. Many women, when asked, will give you a laundry list of what they want in a man. Then invariably they go off and end up with someone that has nothing to do with the list. Because making a list is logical, choosing who to date is emotional. But online, all they have to go by, is that laundry list. If you can, stick with real life dating.
Author quietGuy13 Posted March 7, 2011 Author Posted March 7, 2011 Thanks fishtaco. yes i will stick with real life dating. Although i'm still struggling witih even how to start. Well recently i'm dating a girl...but i don't know if in her culture going out with a guy is something that is the same as dating as we see it in america. But anyways, i'm going to enjoy going out with her. much better than being ignored in OKCUpid all the time
fishtaco Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 Thanks fishtaco. yes i will stick with real life dating. Although i'm still struggling witih even how to start. Well recently i'm dating a girl...but i don't know if in her culture going out with a guy is something that is the same as dating as we see it in america. But anyways, i'm going to enjoy going out with her. much better than being ignored in OKCUpid all the time Yup, good job. You already started. Approach women, flirt, get number, get date. Then repeat as many times as necessary. That's how you date. You're doing it already.
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