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I think I'm finally coming to terms with the breakup that happened almost 6 weeks ago. If you want the long story go to one of my very first posts, but basically we had a good relationship, got along fine, & dumped me out of the blue saying I wasn't the one after 2 months of officially dating exclusively.

 

I acknowledge he may legitly know we have no future and I'm not the one but I really don't think he does. I think it was a little early in our relationship for him to know that for absolute fact. I think we just had bad timing. I don't think he was as ready for a serious relationship as he thought and that's how it was looking for us! We had a pregnancy scare and that's when the doubts started for him. He wasn't able to shake these doubts and I unfortunately didn't give him an outlet to talk about them either. Then a few days before we broke up he exchanged stuff back with his ex-girlfriend, who hurt him really bad last summer. I think this brought back some of those hurt feelings again and he panicked. At this time, he was also having doubts about his future and job and he was really unsure what he wants to do with his future. Doubts he's been having for quite awhile but mixed with the stress from the pregnancy scare and seeing the ex I think he couldn't handle it anymore and ran. It sucks but that's how it is. Unfortunately, I think this was our chance but only time will tell if we will get another one! I hope we do because I can see our potential but I'm not putting my life on hold anymore! I have completely forgiven him for everything but I'm letting go of him! This is a new a new day and a new beginning! :)

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