houstan01 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 I have been seeing a girl for about 10 months. We were in love and everything and told each other we would never leave. I had made some mistakes early in the relationship and i told her about these she did not have to find out from anyone else. The mistakes were slapping a girls but and kissing someone when i was drinking. But when we got later on in the relationship i never made any mistakes. She said she did not want a guy like me. When we broke up i begged her to stay and kept calling and even got her flowers. This did not work and i believe i pushed her further away. I found out later that she got a new bf after about 2 weeks and heard that she is happy with him. It has been 2 months since we broke up and i still have feelings for her. I know i made a mistake but i am willing to put in work to make the relationship work. I know from the bottom of my heart that i will not make another mistake as i know how much she means to me. I am wondering is the relationship that she is in a rebound relationship? Also, should i wait for her in hoping that her new relationship may not work out. I really love her and am willing to wait for her and talk to her if things do not work out in her new relationship. We were friends after but i got mad and said dont talk to me unless you want me back. A few days later i asked if we were friends and she said no Should i use no contact and hope her feelings come back for me ? Is there anything else i can do to get her back ?
Don_da_Ho Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 I am wondering is the relationship that she is in a rebound relationship? Also, should i wait for her in hoping that her new relationship may not work out. I really love her and am willing to wait for her and talk to her if things do not work out in her new relationship. We were friends after but i got mad and said dont talk to me unless you want me back. A few days later i asked if we were friends and she said no Should i use no contact and hope her feelings come back for me ? Is there anything else i can do to get her back ? Yes, do NC but for YOU to improve yourself and move on. If you sit and wait you will not create the energy to possibly attract her back. She may not come around even if you start moving forward, but that's your only shot.
Author houstan01 Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 She has been calling me but i did not pick up the first few times because i was busy. She has been calling me with her number blocked. Should i pick up or are these just tactics to see if i still want her. If i do pick up what should i say to her?
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