svtsilver1 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 Ok so here we go, 6 months ago my wife left me. There was another man involved even though she denied it constantly til I eventually found out for myself. I went NC as much as possible but it was hard seeing as we have a 2 year old daughter that we share custody back and forth evenly with. I kept all calls and any communication with her to just our daughter and thats it. Back when she had first left I went off her first story that she just wasn't happy with herself and it was not me this was something she needed to do(be on her own by herself and make her self happy) of course that blew up as soon as I found out for sure about this other guy, who is now living with her in her apartment. I had told her that I knew she was a strong women and if she regretted it and missed me do not hesitate to come home that i loved her with all my heart and we would work things out, I also told her that if she couldn't make it financially( she had a decent job as a PRN in medical field but they stopped giving her hours and now shes working at a server at a resturant) that she could come home, I know big mistake but i was despereate. Well the text said. You were right thats all im going to say im not going to say about what so there. I told you i would swallow my pride. Well also that morning i received a text from the the other mans, wife who he left for my wife, lol. It said she was sorry that she never cheated with him while they were together and he also cheated on her a few other times blah blah blah, and that she didn't know if she would have to find out for herself the hard way if he was a dog or not. Now to the point. Its been 6 months, 6! And I still have feelings for this women that ripped my heart out of my chest and stomped on it without caring one bit. Did this text mean she missed me or what? I know she isn't doing at all well financially because she obviously can't live by herself in her apartment on her own. I'm just so shook up by this I was actually doing fine and going out on dates even met a girl that i have been spending a fairly decent amount of time, but its not fair to her if that text shook me up this bad. Any input would be very helpful and appreciated. Thanks!
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