inflames Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 not in person but she is rude in txts and she only answers with like 1 word... and i just had to pick her up from work cuz we were both done at the same time nd she txtd me saying just go home im not done now. wtf cudnt she of told me earlier? does she know shes being rude? someone give me advice.. it seems like she doesnt care but she isnt breaking up with me and its not like i buy her stuff or anything.. shud i just breakup with her it annoys me
AmEricanWomann Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 not in person but she is rude in txts and she only answers with like 1 word... and i just had to pick her up from work cuz we were both done at the same time nd she txtd me saying just go home im not done now. wtf cudnt she of told me earlier? does she know shes being rude? someone give me advice.. it seems like she doesnt care but she isnt breaking up with me and its not like i buy her stuff or anything.. shud i just breakup with her it annoys me She acts this way because she doesn't respect you and she knows she can get away with it. Stop being her doormat.
Author inflames Posted March 7, 2011 Author Posted March 7, 2011 She acts this way because she doesn't respect you and she knows she can get away with it. Stop being her doormat. thanks and i know i acvt like a bitch around her because shes my girlfriend. i flirt with other girls and dont give a **** but once they become my girlfriend i become a doormat.. it doesnt make sense
WorldIsYours Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 thanks and i know i acvt like a bitch around her because shes my girlfriend. i flirt with other girls and dont give a **** but once they become my girlfriend i become a doormat.. it doesnt make sense It does make sense. Because you love her. But you shouldn't be a doormat. She'll just keep walking over you.
Author inflames Posted March 7, 2011 Author Posted March 7, 2011 It does make sense. Because you love her. But you shouldn't be a doormat. She'll just keep walking over you. well why doesnt she break up with me? we always get in fights about this and then she says she loves me nd cares about me and then she does it again
WorldIsYours Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 well why doesnt she break up with me? we always get in fights about this and then she says she loves me nd cares about me and then she does it again When she starts to argue, just don't respond. Be neutral and cold sometimes.
Gypsy_Soul Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 You say she's rude to you only through texts, have you tried talking her directly and speaking to her? There seems to be a major lack of communication due to how lazy texting can be.
NamNam Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 It depends, does she normally speak that to you or anybody else? How does she interact with people usually? Some people are rude and inconsiderate but they don't even realise it. It's their way of life as they're used to. There's ways to rectify it but you will have to be patient. That's the good news (maybe). However, if it's just you that she's being rude to then you need to address this with her. Maybe there's an underlying issue that you may not be aware of. Some behaviour you shouldn't have to tolerate, but tolerance and understanidng does go a long way when you want to help your loved ones. But...if she's just a straight up bitch to you for no good reason, then leave her. You don't need that ****.
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