youaretheone Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 I am dating this wonderful girl. I called her one day after the first date to tell her I had a beautiful evening with her and I can't wait to see her again. She is a very shy girl so she can only say "Me too." or "Same here." and then she goes all quiet with such things. Then I wanted to tease her a little and said "Come on, do not be shy. I know you are blushing right now!" in a cute voice but she did not give any response. Then we had to say bye because I was running out of credits so the call ended in a weird mood. Now I am asking myself, "Did I go too hard on her?". I generally do this teasing thing with the girls I like and it is a way of my flirting but what are the chances that she took it the wrong way? I do not want to hurt or scare her. What is the best way to go with very shy girls?
SunshineD Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Ask deep, probing questions that can't be answered in a word or two. That way, you find out where her buttons are.
Movingthrough Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 IMO if that was "too hard" or too much, then she has issues. I think you did ok and you were basically just flirting.
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