purple_cloud Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 I have always dated only white men. I grew up around them and I almost find dating Asian men like an incest. They remind me of my cousins and family. The problem is that almost all white men that I have dated have a strong preference for Asians to the point of it being a fetish. This puts me off. I would rather date white men that have dated a mix of races. Am I being a hypocrite? After all, I only date white so I guess I am no better. I am intersted to hear if there are any other Asian women that feel this way.
SarcasticBlonde Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 I have always dated only white men. I grew up around them and I almost find dating Asian men like an incest. They remind me of my cousins and family. The problem is that almost all white men that I have dated have a strong preference for Asians to the point of it being a fetish. This puts me off. I would rather date white men that have dated a mix of races. Am I being a hypocrite? After all, I only date white so I guess I am no better. I am intersted to hear if there are any other Asian women that feel this way. Dating other asians is like incest? Wtf? My boyfriend is Japanese. He hasn't been interested in dating other asian women because he feels most asian women didn't have the physical attributes he is attracted to. I guess I can understand that a little better than your reason. As far as the fetish part goes..I'm sure not every white guy dates asian women because its a fetish. You just haven't met the right one.
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 I have always dated only white men. I grew up around them and I almost find dating Asian men like an incest. They remind me of my cousins and family. The problem is that almost all white men that I have dated have a strong preference for Asians to the point of it being a fetish. This puts me off. I would rather date white men that have dated a mix of races. Am I being a hypocrite? After all, I only date white so I guess I am no better. I am intersted to hear if there are any other Asian women that feel this way. Hm. Maybe all the Asian guys you know feel the same way about you as you feel about them. Really, guys who are attracted to Asian looks are no more fetishistic than those who are attracted to, say, big breasted blondes ... with blue eyes.
Star Gazer Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Really, guys who are attracted to Asian looks are no more fetishistic than those who are attracted to, say, big breasted blondes ... with blue eyes. :lmao: This thread is such a cover, as we all know. But to the subject in general, we all have our physical preferences. I don't think that makes anyone a fetishist.
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