quietGuy13 Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 LIke I have bought all the stuff i need. right now i don't need anything, i just went to get groceries. But i want to go out and meet girls. I don't do it successfully alot but sometimes i get guts and talk to girls in the street( public places) . The ones that are in my same personality level( quiet ones). I wanna do it more cause aside from one friend i made(the same way), i have nothing. Plus i have no girlfriend and i want to meet more women so that i have chances to meet someone for a relationship. Some people and relationship specialist say "Go out.. NOt for girls. Go out and enjoy yourself . have fun for yourself. don't focus on meeting girls. And that way you'll attract people and meet people" Well, but i really don't have nothing OUtside to enjoy. My hobbies are computer stuff etc. I go to the library sometimes and bookstores but that's about it. So i have no need to go out for fun. My fun is in my house. SO, that's why i'm saying. Is it OK to go out to try to meet people just to meet people and practice speaking? Not go out for a specific purpose.
AverageJoe Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Of course, go for it. Before the advent of technology, how else do you think it was done? I still do it. Nothing beats conversation in the flesh and eye contact.
East7 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 Some people and relationship specialist say "Go out.. NOt for girls. Go out and enjoy yourself . have fun for yourself. don't focus on meeting girls. And that way you'll attract people and meet people" That's right ! If you go out only to meet girls you put yourself pressure and expectations that may be unmet thus frustrating you. People that don't have expectations are more distracted thus more confident and secure, thus more attractive and likely to meet women.
Author quietGuy13 Posted March 7, 2011 Author Posted March 7, 2011 Ok yeah. but i dont have any hobbies or things to buy outside. I'm not the WIndow shopping type. The only time i am interested in stores is going to bookstores. I thought i wanted to join a dance class but recently i realized i can't because my knees are bad and my ankle keeps popping out. and you have to wear these heel leather shoes(yeah for men) and that's just dangerous.
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