Jamez1580 Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Basically, I've been speaking to a girl for a couple of months now. We eventually arranged to meet up last sunday and for the week prior to meeting, we were really excited and messaging each other an excessive amount. So we met up last Sunday morning; both a little nervous at first, naturally. Additionally, there were plenty of awkward laughs and smiles (Which i considered a bonus as these things are natural when you're attracted to someone, generally speaking, right?). Anyway, as the 'date' progressed, we both became considerably more comfotable and open with each other and when we eventually got to the coffee shop and sat down, I felt a 'spark' between us. We couldn't stop looking into each others eyes and smiling and, despite being really self-conscious, I felt absolutely fine and that there was a good chance of not only mutual attraction to each others personalities, but physical. Subsequently, we walked around the shops and she occasionally made suggestions, indicating perhaps that she wanted to stay with me as long as she could. Eventually, we made our way back the train station and I felt so comfortable. I wanted to bring up the subject of seeing each other again before we got home but I decided to wait a little. When we got back to our hometown and parted, I asked if she'd like to see me again to which she replied 'Yes!' with a smile. When I returned home, I updated my Facebook status which read 'I had a lovely day' She 'liked' the status and remarked upon how she too had a lovely day. However, since that, (a week ago), there's been sparse conversation, I haven't been able to contact her at all. The nearest I got was a text in which i suggested meeting me today. She texted me back saying she wasn't 100% sure if she was busy or not but that it definitely sounded like a good idea. It never happened and well, here I am, wondering what the hell I should do. There's playing hard to get and then there's toying with peoples emotions! Argh... Any suggestions?
SunshineD Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 You could ask her to tell you when she's free and make plans for then?
Datura Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 I haven't been able to contact her at all. What do you mean? You try, and then what happens?
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