Stilicho Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 so, my ex, as of late, has been giving major mixed signals, from calling and texting me almost daily, being very touchy/feely and flirty when around me in class, apologizes for what went wrong, says she wishes none of this ever happened, tries to "Care" for me, by bringing me food, drinks, etc. and basically acts like when we were together when she is around me, but than, at the drop of a hat, shell turn into a b****, and be nasty, to which i basically say, if ur gonna act like that, dont ever contact me again, which seems to frighten her. thing is, she is still seeing the guy she rebounded with after our break up, who is a complete, loser, drug addicted and all. it has been about 2 1/2 months since we broke up, and she always breaks our NC periods ive set up, so after a while, ive tried contact with her, and its been about 2-3 weeks, and she gets progressively more flirtatious. But than, like yesterday, she seemed to do the pushing away thing by being nasty, saying she feels torn about me, whatever that means. so, this has basically git me thinking, why do ex's do this? and when dooes this usually occur? is it after feelings from break up subside? honeymoon period begins to end with rebound? idk, but id like to hear what everybody's thoughts are, and even any insight into my situation.
Author Stilicho Posted March 6, 2011 Author Posted March 6, 2011 any body have any input? i could really use some right now...
lcfc1993 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 No real use to you mate, but my ex does the same, in terms of flipping and getting angry. I was texting her the other day being nice and she'll randomly flip at me and have ago at me and start blaming all her problems on me, even though she dumped me. She was violent, controlling and aggressive throughout our relationship. People are telling me its because she still has feelings for me and she shows them through her aggression and anger, sort of like when we were together. I've cut all ties with her now, I won't be speaking to her again, because she got angry and said to me shes going to get me done for harassment/sexual harassment. If your prepared to move on, then cut all ties with her, tell her to stop contacting you and leave you alone. If she does try to contact you, ignore it.
depplover_1980 Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 It's because most women are crazy apart from most of the cool ones who write on here and like learning about others.
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