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Finally found love. but how do I keep it?


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A little backround on me. Im 27. Good looking. Nice Job. Overall good catch. I havent had a girlfriend in five years, but that is because I never wanted one. I am sorry to admit that I have just been "playing" girl after girl for five years.

 

but a few months ago i ran into a girl and asked for her number with the intention of "playing" her. I met with her and tried to have sex with her but she wouldnt do it so i stopped calling her. she would periodically text me but i would blow her off because in the back of my mind i knew that i liked her and didnt want to get caught up in a relationship.

 

but about a month ago she texted me again and i started to talk to her. she told me that she really liked me and that she wanted a serious relationship and i agreed to that. we started to just hang out and go out together and we started spending the night together. this has been going on for about a month.

 

I am really starting to love her (but havent told her). but at the same time, i feel like she is starting to become distant. we arent sleeping together anymore and she isnt talking about her feelings anymore. for the past couple days we havent talked at all. the last thing she said was "see you tomorrow" i havent called her because i want to see if she is gonna call me. also just to give her a little space because we have been together everyday.

 

but if she doesnt call me for a couple more days, I was thinking about just texting her and letting her know that I still want her, and I care about her and if she still wants to be with me, the door is open. and just leaving the ball in her court.

 

does anyone have any better advice for me? what should I do to keep her?

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