NoMagicBullet Posted March 7, 2011 Posted March 7, 2011 (edited) She dumped you, the relationship was over, but as soon as you change your relationship status on FB, she and her mother have a major hissy fit? Now we know where she got the selfish, self-absorbed princess mentality from. Her mother had no business getting involved your breakup. You do not need these people in your life! My advice: -- Go NC with her & her family or anyone giving you grief about not putting up with your ex-gf's s**t. -- If you are feeling threatened, screen your calls using caller ID and voicemail. Your friends & family will understand; other people will be fine with you calling back later. -- If someone does threaten you, document it and report it to the police. If you keep getting harrassed by your ex or anyone else, document it and report it. If you still have all these texts and such from ex & mom & anyone else, save them as part of that documentation. -- Above all, DO NOT get back together with her. Don't feel bad or guilty because she dumped you and you thought you had to move on. It's perfectly logical that you would change your FB status. That she only hid it shows she was likely looking at other options while thinking she still had you on the hook. Maybe breaking up with you was some sort of test from her, and you didn't respond the way she expected -- well, now you see what her and her family are like. At best, a whole lot of drama and at worst, completely nuts. Even if your relationship was still intact, they're bad news. Stay away from them and feel good about having escaped. Edited March 7, 2011 by NoMagicBullet Seriously.
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