confuzed25 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 I'm gonna try to keep this short. I've been dating a guy for 2 1/2 months. He confessed to me that he has herpes from an ex gf that didn't tell him she had it. I freaked out and said I could not date him anymore but he would not give up and fought to get me back everyday saying that he truly believed that I was the perfect girl for him and that he believed that I am "the one" and he was never going to get over it if we couldn't be together. I eventually gave in and said I would date him because honestly I feel like he is my soulmate. We are like the exact same person in likes, dislikes, morals, values, and what we are looking for. Also, he treats me like a princess and is constantly telling me how much he cares about me, that I'm amazing, etc. Well he has been broken up from his ex gf now for a year. They were together for 2 years and she cheated on him for 4 months. When he found out he kicked her out of his house but they tried to make it work again but he said he couldn't get over it so they stopped talking. Well now that he has a new gf she is kind of trying to get his attention again and he saw her the other day at someone's calling hours and he said they talked for a couple mins and it was really awkward and she texted him when he left and asked him to hang out but he said that would not be a good idea because he has a gf. Before all of this happened he said all kinds of bad things about her, how she lived off of him and never did anything around the house and of course she cheated for a long time. I'm just very concerned because now that he has a gf she is trying to come back and I'm going to be extremely upset if I got over the herpes thing only to get left for an ex that treated him like crap. I talked to him about it last night and he told me I'm the only one he wants to be with and I had nothing to worry about but then he kept changing the subject and just acting like it wasn't a big deal. I wonder if he was enjoying it actually because I was worried about him. When I first told him we needed to talk he freaked out but as soon as I said it was about his ex he was fine and was trying to joke with me that I worry too much. It made me feel worse because he wasn't taking it seriously. Then he carried me to my bed and gave me a long massage. Maybe its my imagination but he just doesn't seem the same...he isn't as touchy feely as usual and instead of saying I love you like usual sometimes now he just says love ya. Last night he was telling me I'm amazing and and that he loves me and all that but he didn't say anything about us being together for a long time like he usually does or joking around about how I'm stuck with him for many years. Now this morning he was almost back to his old self saying that he couldn't wait to see me tonight and stuff like that but he still onlly said love ya which just seems too friendly. Maybe I am reading into this too much and worrying for no reason but please tell me honestly what u think and what I should do......thanks!
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