Kaileah Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 I hope this is the right place to post this. I'm in a really precarious position here. I was asked to give my partner of six months space - things kinda moved really quickly, we fell hard for each other, were happy and then I got very sick (major health issues) and hid it from my partner via silences. Its been a month since I've had any real contact from him - he was very clear that we hadn't broken up at the time. just that space was needed. We met on a dating site, and I (am not proud of this) but looked up his profile with another profile on the site and he has been browsing the site again - as recently as half a day ago. He stopped when we got together and I closed down my profile completely as I thought I was with the One. I'm completely lost as to where I am in this relationship right now - has the space become time for him to force me into breaking up with him? Or has he decided to break up with me but chosen not to do it in person? I'd really appreciate input from you all as it has been affecting me severely - I can't stop crying, I'm miserable and generally feel worthless. Thank you all in advance.
allenmj Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Well, Contact him directly. If he can't be honest and tell you exactly where the two of you stand, then he isn't the one, and you need to start the healing process so you can move on and find the true "One" Good luck to you, I hope it works out!
Author Kaileah Posted March 5, 2011 Author Posted March 5, 2011 Oh, I forgot to mention one issue - the space now has me terrified of speaking to him. I guess there's a part of me that really doesn't want to hear whatever the outcome may be
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