Puddin Jones Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 do you think it is a good idea for me to show up to her work before she gets on and stand and give her her favorite flowers? she broke up with me and told me that she still loves me she just doesnt like how i treat her.. this was a wake up call for me and i want to make her feel loved and appreciated. any input would be helpful at this point.
USMCHokie Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Absolutely not. It's weird and kind of creepy. Consider it a lesson learned: treat your next girl right.
depplover_1980 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Hmmm, well I dumped someone yesterday and he turned up at my house with flowers and it really annoyed me as I'd be asked to be left alone. It would be safer to have them delivered with a simple note - arrange with a florist. That way she can come to you if she wants to.
willpower Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 From an objective perspective then my take is that showing up with flowers says: "here is a nice bunch if flowers, now please cheer up and take me back so I can carry on as normal and continue to treat you badly" I'm not saying don't take action, but take time to think about what she said to you and open a communication channel with her once you understand her concerns and talk to her about them. The cynic in me says that whatever she tells you is just to make things easier for her and the real reason is that she no linger loves you. Talking to her will get this out in the open one way or another.
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