monkeynuts Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 please bare with this explanation, I need advice and would appreciate any input right me and my ex gf had a fairly messy breakup...we had trust issues and towards the end I made it clear I still wanted her but she kept me at a distance and then kinda had a rough few weeks and it was kind of finally left that we would not ring/text eachother again. and to delete eachothers numbers. it came about as she said she would never change her mind and would never get back with me. I said its unfair to keep in contact with me then as its giving me false hope. anyhow had 2 weeks of NC. Then I sent her a msg asking her to post some of my stuff to me (through facebook) anyhow she mentioned she would be deleting facebook and I would have no way to contact her apart from the phone but she thought I would of deleted her number. for some reason I gave hre my number....she ended up texting me and the rest I wont go into. to cut it short we have texted solidly since tuesday, spoke on the phone a few times and I mentioned about meeting friday, at first she was like 'we'll see' well we met friday, spent hour or so together and more or less found out we both been thinking of eachother, both missing eachother but both unsure whether we can start again and put the past behind us. I love this girl and do truely miss her, she did hurt me towards the end with how she was acting but I just cant seem to let this girl go. we both said about how we think of eachother alot and I said about meeting next weekend and again got the response 'we'll see' she said herself she wants to be with me but is unsure because of what happened. I kind of feel at the moment that she just isnt that interested but maybe Im looking into it way to much. meen she met met, is still texting and has phoned me. if she is thinking the same thing Iam then there is an uncertainty...but I think we can get through it. has anyone else been in this situation before? how did you handle it? what advice would you give me? she does seem a little different towards me but whethers that because we havent seen eachother in like 6 weeks. we have been getting on fine the last few days which is nice....im just so unsure of what to do
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