so_mo34 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 im 23 and have been **** buddies with this guy who is 36 for about a year and a half. anyways i reealllly like him, like big time. even though he treats me like ****. i ended it a couple times, but that didn't work out. i keep hearing things about other girls he has hooked up with as well. and these other girls he's texting and stuff so he ****s other girls besides me. i keep getting so jealous all the time and i hate this. i just want to get over him already, but i find it impossible to move on. i see him at work too, but im trying to find a new job. i just like him so much and can't find the courage to get away. i also have really low self esteem and im insecure. how do i go about doing this? should i just ignore him? why is this so hard?
SmileFace Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Why are you doing this to yourself? Why will you continue to something from someone who doesn't want the same? It is beyond me why people get their selves in to these situations. You need to love yourself. Low self-esteem isn't an excuse. Please do what is best for you. He isn't at fault ;you are for staying in this situation. People only do to you what you allow them.You need to be strong and love your self and get out of this now or you will continue to hurt. Not him - he is well off in this situation obviously . Please learn to love yourself and stop doing this to yourself. You need to just move on - forget about him. That is how you go by it. Yes, it is going to be hard - since you are in deep but it isn't something you can't get over.Do you want to continue to want someone who doesn't want you? Yeah, I didn't think so. All the best .
Author so_mo34 Posted March 5, 2011 Author Posted March 5, 2011 yeah your definitely right. this needs to stop for good..i just hate how hard it is and how attached i am to him. how should i end it? do you think i should just block his number and ignore him? he might wonder why i'm suddenly ignoring him.
MrNate Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Grow some ovaries, leave this situation, and invest (a ton) into personal time. This situation sounds absolutely miserable. There is no thinking necessary. Just stop talking to the guy and leave. He's getting ass, you're getting insulted. Do yourself a favor today, and turn this around. Leave, and find out who you are.
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