sweetblubrry Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 (edited) 7 month relationship, no probs/fights, breaks up with me out of nowhere. Am totally devastated. Gives multiple lame excuses only bc i don't think he wanted to admit why. NC for 4 weeks (I do acknowledge him at work but no text, calls, emails, fb messages, etc) Run into him a week ago after work and asked him if we could talk about what happenEd with the breakup. This time he talked about all his faults. Doesn't trust people, can't let anyone in, unsure about where life is going career-wise, hates himself for dropping out of college, lots of self Esteem issues, is a total people pleaser, intimacy issues, etc. He says i deserve better and that he never wanted this to happen to me. I def can feel that he cares deep down so i dont understand i have heard from his friends they have talked to him and it's the same thing. The next day we worked together and he was SO flirty with me. He acts so concerned about my life and asking questions and even offered to help me move apartments when my lease is up. That was a week ago. No contact or have seen him at work since then. Why so flirty and then disappear again? It's killing me. He's a good person, just has a lot of internal issues right now. What is the best course of action if I want him back? Right now I am staying nc unless I see him at work. I let him approach me.. And he always does. I'll be doing something and there he is next to ne smiling and trying to make convo and playfully joke w me. I respond short and sweet and then go back to what I'm doing. Am I doing the right thing? I miss him so much. Edited March 5, 2011 by sweetblubrry
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