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Should i tell her about NC, still bugging me.


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Girlfriend dumped me after 2 months for being too clingy. She told me that she still really wanted to be friends etc etc. I deleted her from facebook 2 weeks after BU as she was ignoring me and it angered me. 2 weeks later, I added her again because I wanted her to know that I didn't hate her, I was just doing what was best for me. Her friend told me that it really pissed her off and that she thought I was very "immature" so obviously she hasn't been thinking about me at all and the break-up hasn't affected her in the slightest.

 

Should I send her a message just explaining why I deleted her and why I re-added her, it's been a month since we broke up and i saw her last night, i acted normal, just being myself cracking jokes/talking to her friends, she was laughing and adding things to what i was saying but was unusually quiet/distant and kept reaching out to my cat for unknown reasons. Should I let her know that I'm cutting contact with her as it will be the best thing for me and that if she realizes I wasn't all that bad she can contact me and work something out. Should I also mention that I don't think she ever loved me, because that's really getting to me.

 

Since the break-up, 1 month ago, she hasn't tried to contact me in any form and our break-up wasn't bad at all. It wasn't mutual, but there wasn't any abuse or point out eachothers faults, she just explained to me how she felt, i explained how i felt and then we talked for 2 hours like nothing had gone wrong.

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