Soxfaninfl Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Seems like men here this more than women. I heard it from my stbx wife after 10 years of marriage, and so did two of my married male friends that were married also 10+ years.
Craig2425 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 My stbx wife said this to me too. This is why she doesn't way to try. Probably has nothing to do with her new bf.
Duckduckgoose Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Just know that not every woman will cheat. Please don't get bitter and write off women totally. Some will stick it out to the bitter end with you, and go down fighting for the marriage. Had to throw that out there. 1
trippi1432 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 No Sox..not true that only women say this...heard it over a year ago from my husband..along with the whole not compatible BS lines too. Where I am now, I would agree with the not compatible...heck, I now agree with the not in love with you either...it takes time. He's been with his GF for almost 2 years now....yeah, most of the time it means they are cheating....just going to give in.
Tayla Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Yea it's known on the internet if you get the "I love you but not in love with you" speech they cheated. Thank heavens the world and its couples are not going solely off the "internet" data. I didn't cheat when those words were spoken nor did the other person..Can you let the "internet" entities know that please...I want to be that 1/2% that didn't follow course of such a conclusion. I've walked in both directions as a person who did love someone but had fallen out of love. TO this day I sincerely love them , yet realize it wasn't going to work out. I also received that type of talk and oddly enough I was okay with it, because maybe I accepted that you can love someone and not live together or have any more energy left to "work" on the dead horse...There comes a point that you must let go...even when you live in a mythical land that says Love should be enough....
robf1971 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 Thank heavens the world and its couples are not going solely off the "internet" data. I didn't cheat when those words were spoken nor did the other person..Can you let the "internet" entities know that please...I want to be that 1/2% that didn't follow course of such a conclusion. I've walked in both directions as a person who did love someone but had fallen out of love. TO this day I sincerely love them , yet realize it wasn't going to work out. I also received that type of talk and oddly enough I was okay with it, because maybe I accepted that you can love someone and not live together or have any more energy left to "work" on the dead horse...There comes a point that you must let go...even when you live in a mythical land that says Love should be enough.... Lol I heard this line twice in 2 separate marriages, on both occasions my wife's were not cheating. In my first marriage it was funny how those "in love feelings" returned to her when I met someone else, though it was way too late. Now on my second marriage, there has been a bit of a turnaround too and we are working things out. My conclusion, being "in love" is a load of sloppy sentimental BS.
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