MissVegas Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 (edited) My boyfriend and i have been broken up for two months now *see my other posts* since NYE we haven't communicated much. Last week he sent me a text saying he missed and loved me. Crumbs I know and that he wanted to have sex and was horny ******** i know* and wanted to see me sometime soon. Ughhh anyways. We booked a vacation back when we were together and I thought for sure he had canceled I never paid him any money for it. Just to make sure because the cancellation deadline is coming up on Mar.17 i checked online and it wasn't so i asked him and he said he still wants to go with me. He said there's nobody he'd rather go on vacation with and it's the best two weeks of the year. I told him I thought he should cancel because the only way i'd ever consider going on a two week vacation is if he worked really hard at our relationship, no crumbs bull****, went to counselling and apologized to my parents and stuff. He ignored this so i texted him a few days later why he ignored and he said he didn't want to go to counseling and then basically said everything was my fault and I add to his stress by calling him a bad boyfriend *which i never did i said i was hurt when he ditched me nye so he must feel like a bad bf* and that he can't change anymore about him. The date is coming closer and he hasn't contacted me at all I checked and it's still booked. I can't cancel because it's not on my name or credit card. I don't know what I should do about this dilemma do I just wait and see? Like he obviously doesn't want to work things out but i feel like he wants the benefits of going on a vacation with me? So should I just not pay him and not go if he doesn't cancel? Neither one of us is contacting the other. Edited March 5, 2011 by MissVegas
depplover_1980 Posted March 5, 2011 Posted March 5, 2011 It is not in your name and not your credit card so you don't owe a dollar. You have made it clear you don't want to go, then proposed counter terms to his suggestion which he refused. Therefore your conscience is clear and the responsibility with cancelling lies with him because if you could, you would cancel it no questions asked. I think you should feel reassured that the relationship ending was the right thing.
z00m25 Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 Doesn't sound like a good idea to me. I wouldn't even worry about it, especially if its all in his name.
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