I dont get it, whats going through her mind and how is she dealing with the breakup?

[seanmathews3]

So its been almost 2 weeks since break up, dated for 5 months, started falling in love (first love), reason was her "feelings changed and aren't that strong like they plateaued " and that a relationship isn't what she is looking for. there has been little contact with a very few times of seeing each other.

 

Its been NC for a few days at a time, but i wanna start NC for good till she realizes what its like with me out of the picture.. and she'll either hate it or like it..

 

its been 2 days of NC and just feels like she doesnt care or is super fine with it.. it eats at me everyday.. but at the same time it messes with my head.. i have been taking pictures of us off facebook day by day and i only have like 1 pic up and she still has a handful of our pictures up, but there are a few guys who posted on her wall about hanging out and stuff.. it could be something or it could be nothing.. thats how it messes with my head kuz she said she has no intentions of dating for a long time.. i have had the most trust with her kuz her honesty but is this one of those things where she is just being nice and doesnt give a dam about us or about someday making things right and starting over to work towards something

 

just wondering if this is normal or what it means..

[depplover_1980]

Hey there,

 

Me and GreenPolicy have left you some advice on the other thread.

 

But generally she isn't going to miss you just yet. NC is time for you to focus on yourself and getting your life back together and space for her to assess whether your absense hurts her etc.

 

You have to be focused and patient. Not easy, but the real life challenges never are!

[Eddie Edirol]

She does not miss you. This is normal. She broke up with you because she couldnt stand to be around you anymore, she is relieved about it. She found someone else that she wanted to date instead. She told you that she had no intentions on dating to avoid backlash from you. Thats what usually happens.

[turokturok5]

i know how you feel, exept with my case it's been 2 weeks. Deleted her off facebook, sent her another request after 2 weeks of NC because i wanted her to know that i didn't hate her (i thought she may think this because i deleted her) Instead, her friend tells me today how she was so pissed off and start raging about me, saying that she thought we were still friends and how "immature" i was. Clearly she didn't think about me at all.