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Is this normal? (key words: cheating, jealousy, etc)


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So, I met a boy in early Jan. I like him and def. see the future with him. We have not had the exclusive talk, but he did tell me that he was not seeing anyone else.

 

Last week, he said his college friend was visiting him from Philly. He said she used to have a huge crush on his friend and that was how they became close friends. Then, I found out she was also Korean (I am Korean).

 

I know she is staying at his place for the next three days. Interestingly, I am flying to Philly next weekend. He said he wanted to introduce his friend to me, so she could show me around when I visit Philly.

 

I talked to him last night knowing she was going to arrive 7 pmish. We talked probably 10 min, but he never actually initiated to make any plan. I am throwing a dinner party tonight. He originally told me she was visiting him next week, so I chose tonight for the party, but then he said he was wrong about the date. In addition, he said there was going to be a party with the friends whom he went to college with tonight. He said he would rather go to the party with her instead of my dinner party.

 

I am ok with everything....it is just that there is a nagging thought that this may not be normal and I should be a little bit upset? My house is literally 10 blocks aways from his place. He could have stayed with me while letting her stay in his. I dunno....is this normal? Do you know he is cheating on me?

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