turokturok5 Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 Had a group gathering (like 8 people) my ex came. I acted as if the break-up never touched me, talked to her friends, cracked jokes etc, saw her laughing and adding stuff to what i was saying. Exept she was a lot quieter than usual and had kept on reaching out for my cat. I still have strong feelings for her but its good to know i can be around her and act like my normal self. Link to post Share on other sites
charly26 Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 You're my model to follow. Keep up the good work Link to post Share on other sites
Rap17 Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 Had a group gathering (like 8 people) my ex came. I acted as if the break-up never touched me, talked to her friends, cracked jokes etc, saw her laughing and adding stuff to what i was saying. Exept she was a lot quieter than usual and had kept on reaching out for my cat. I still have strong feelings for her but its good to know i can be around her and act like my normal self. Fantastic to hear mate, sounds like you handled yourself really well. Link to post Share on other sites
screwball Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Fake it till you make it Link to post Share on other sites
Author turokturok5 Posted March 5, 2011 Author Share Posted March 5, 2011 cheeers, had a dream about her afterwards though..that we were still together, got me feeling a bit down but it should pass Link to post Share on other sites
seanmathews3 Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 you replied to my thread earlier and i have some questions for you.. how long was the relationship how long were you two apart? how long did NC last if there was any? just wondering how long it took you to move on and be a bit more comfortable kuz i just lost someone aswell Link to post Share on other sites
roman_pavluchenko Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 you replied to my thread earlier and i have some questions for you.. how long was the relationship how long were you two apart? how long did NC last if there was any? just wondering how long it took you to move on and be a bit more comfortable kuz i just lost someone aswell i haven't moved on yet, i said i hope someone answers you because im going through the same thing. But we were together for 2 months and been apart 1 month, about 2 weeks NC and she hasn't contacted me. But you know, what is really helping me is writing down everything i didn't like about the relationship and everything i didn't like about her. It's got me thinking that eventually when she dates someone who is a lot less tolerant than i was she is most-likely going to put into my poistion - i managed to come up with a whole page of her flaws. Link to post Share on other sites
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