Yeahsussu Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 What would you call a guy who: - was seeing another girl while I lived abroad (this was early on in our LDR and we weren´t exclusives then so I forgave him) - begged for me to come over and live with him in his country for a year, which I happily did. - had an "emotional affair" with someone else prior to my arrival to his country. - fooled this other girl by saying that I was only gonna be in the country for a few months. - broke up with me after living with him for a year in his country because he couldn´t do the LDR thing again, and he was going away for a new job. - most likely texting this girl again when I´m gone. - still texts me saying how much he misses me and wishes I was there with him. I´m so full of anger I don´t know what to do with myself.
smudge21 Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Anger is good - remember how that feels as you definitely don't want to be giving this piece of **** any more of your time.
Rose T Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 You really tried with this man, ok? You really did your best to meet him half-way and more and he didn't put in the same effort. Be angry with him if you need to, don't be angry with yourself for the time you've spent, accept you dedicated yourself to trying to make it work, it didn't, and now you're going to move on. You have to be strong for him as well because he's just going to keep reaching out and he really will start wasting your time now if you let him. I'm in a messy situation too and I know how you feel and how hard it can be when you feel like you've invested multiple efforts into making it work. But he won't ever properly let you go if he can get away with keeping you on a string. The power to move on is in your hands.
Author Yeahsussu Posted March 4, 2011 Author Posted March 4, 2011 (edited) I hope he never finds anyone as good as me, I wish he realizes what he´s lost. He better enjoy this new job of his now as he sacrificed our relationship for it. I hope the other girls realize what a player he is and that he will probably get bored of them in a while and jump to the next girl. At the same time he strings some other chick along as a back-up plan. What an immature piece of sh-t! He´s scared of being all alone. Yeah all this sounds really really mean, but this is how I feel at the moment... Edited March 4, 2011 by Yeahsussu
Author Yeahsussu Posted March 6, 2011 Author Posted March 6, 2011 Hopefully I´ll someday get to that point where I can wish him well in life. But right now that seems sooo far away..
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