Strength of Heart Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 Hey all, I'm almost a week through NC right now and am just wondering when I should be asking my ex out to lunch? I just want to get a basic idea of where she is at after a certain amount of NC.
carhill Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 When to ask ex out to lunch? When the answer doesn't matter.
Lemontang Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 When the answer doesn't matter. Agreed. If anything since she essentially was the dumper, it's up to her to pretty much ask you. No point chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased. And if you do your on a guaranteed path to friend zoneville. Do you really want to hang around someone who doesn't reciprocate how you feel? I know saying that upfront can be harsh to some people, but your saving yourself from a world of hurt if you ask her. Even if she did agree to go to lunch with you. In the end you'll expect more out of the meeting than what you'll actually get, and you'll likely leave feeling even worse or make an arse out of yourself. Keep your self respect at the very least and don't. Even if you don't see it now, you'll thank yourself later.
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