IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 (edited) Someone, preferably a girl tell me if she likes me. We are both 15 but she's in the grade below me. I have been going to separate schools because of something the happened at our main school. Here's the main details that I think are somewhat good. We have walked to and from school many times sometimes just each other, and talk pretty well. She laughs at my jokes a lot and will bring them up a lot. When she sees me she will smile and say my name in such a way as saying "hi" she also says she misses not being at the same school as me and wants to get back. She's a VERY nice, smart, and pretty girl, so I don't know if she's just being nice. Some bad things are, she has walked home with my friend before, although when she saw me they stopped and waited(my friend had to talk to his mom anyways but she could've continued on.) Also at random occasions it seems we're both shy and don't say a word to each other. Phew, happy to get THAT off my chest. What do you think? Edited March 3, 2011 by IAMFOOTBALL Spelling and grammatical errors
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 6, 2011 Author Posted March 6, 2011 Please help me, I'm going to a school with her this Monday!
AirbenderAang Posted March 6, 2011 Posted March 6, 2011 The thing is you have so many options available to you. All of them are going to take a little courage. Basically it comes down to thinking of something cool to do with her(start small). Then ask her. You could ask her out to do something after school like grab a bite to eat or ice cream. You could say something like, "Want to walk home together? Or, I really like walking home from school with you. Want to make that a regular thing?" So many options, pick what you think is best. Then force yourself to be bold. It doesn't have to be perfect. The most important is to get it out. We already know she likes you at least a little. It is up to you to be a little bold and see what develops. Learn to take leaps and life will reward you.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 10, 2011 Author Posted March 10, 2011 Well, we got back and she hasn't talked to me yet. I tried to talk to her but she just mumbled something and went to her next class. How can I get her to talk to me again?
Green_eyes Posted March 10, 2011 Posted March 10, 2011 You can't "get" her to talk to you again. It could be that she was busy, had something on her mind, felt self-conscious about something. Just wait and see - as Airbender said, it is reasonably sure that she likes you, at least a little. Play it cool and wait for another opportunity to talk to her.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 11, 2011 Author Posted March 11, 2011 She laughed at a couple of my jokes today, then talked to me after school. How do I tell if she's just being nice?!?
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 13, 2011 Author Posted March 13, 2011 Opinions on the subject of her just being nice?
somedude81 Posted March 13, 2011 Posted March 13, 2011 Dude you're so young. It's really hard to give any dating advice to people you're age. Anyways, do you have her phone number yet? If not get it. After that, try to take her to a park or something. Get some frozen yogurt just find out who she is.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 17, 2011 Author Posted March 17, 2011 Yeah but I have known her for a long time. I think she likes me now, she talks to me a lot and when I see her look at me she makes a funny face. To add on to that, she also laughs a my jokes A LOT.
Macaw Posted March 17, 2011 Posted March 17, 2011 There's a simple test to know if she likes you or not. When you're both alone, ask her out on the weekend to see a movie. Be specific on the day and time, such as "saturday 7 pm, sounds good?" The reasoning behind this is that if she likes you, she'll either accept the invitation or if she can't, she'll propose another date and time. If she's not into you, she'll give some excuse to why she cannot and just say "maybe some other time" without being specific about "when" that would be. If she does the latter, you can be sure she just likes you as a friend. But do some planning before that. You obviously care about her somewhat, and want this to be perfect, so rehearse the conversation a few times in your head. You want to come off as calm, cool and serious when you make the invitation. Do remember that girls are attracted to masculine traits, so you can't come off as being too insecure and afraid of rejection. You have to be in a mindset where she's lucky that you're giving her a chance and not the other way around, without sounding like an arrogant prick. It's a big turnoff for girls when the man acts like he's double thinking everything he says, stuttering even, because he's afraid of losing her. It is however, a bigger turnoff when he acts like a jerk. So take your time and think about this very throughly.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 19, 2011 Author Posted March 19, 2011 Um, okay. Sounds extremely difficult. One problem is that there's not movie theater in my town.
somedude81 Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 You didn't address my post. Kids... Get her phone number. Meet up with her somewhere after school. Or on the weekend. Do you know where she lives?
pennyflame Posted March 27, 2011 Posted March 27, 2011 You sound just like a buddy of mine who is now 24 years old and only had one girlfriend... You've got to stop being so nervous and over thinking things. Just be bold like the other guy said or you're gonna end up being like my friend sitting at home playing the same thing over and over in your head wondering what you did wrong. Honestly and this is going to sound harsh... but if she likes you she likes you if she doesn't she doesn't. You're 15, this isn't your future wife or anything. Have some confidence in yourself kid! And yeah, get her number. Maybe start off like that at least, talking to her on the phone. And btw, no she's not just being nice, she likes you so go for it!
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 29, 2011 Author Posted March 29, 2011 Thanks guys, I will try to find out if she likes me. Any advice on that?
interfuse Posted March 29, 2011 Posted March 29, 2011 This is probably my first post, but I was browsing this forum because I was thinking of posting something and then saw this. All the advice given here have been great. Please go for it and ask her out. Don't let it keep dragging it out. Forget the "how do I find out if she likes me," or "oh does she like me or not" etc. You're just going to keep going around in circles. Just ask her to hang out and ask for her phone number. How long have you known this girl? If you've known for her a long time, now is the time to just do it and ask her out to hang out on a weekend. To answer your question: Honestly there isn't a definite answer to if she really likes you or not unless she agrees to go out with you. I can definitely tell you that the signs of her showing are good. She seems like she likes talking to you so far. You also said that you think she likes you now. What are you waiting for dude? Ask her out!! Don't wait come on now.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted March 31, 2011 Author Posted March 31, 2011 This is probably my first post, but I was browsing this forum because I was thinking of posting something and then saw this. All the advice given here have been great. Please go for it and ask her out. Don't let it keep dragging it out. Forget the "how do I find out if she likes me," or "oh does she like me or not" etc. You're just going to keep going around in circles. Just ask her to hang out and ask for her phone number. How long have you known this girl? If you've known for her a long time, now is the time to just do it and ask her out to hang out on a weekend. To answer your question: Honestly there isn't a definite answer to if she really likes you or not unless she agrees to go out with you. I can definitely tell you that the signs of her showing are good. She seems like she likes talking to you so far. You also said that you think she likes you now. What are you waiting for dude? Ask her out!! Don't wait come on now. I asked her if she's coming on this trip with one other person, does that count for anything?
interfuse Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I asked her if she's coming on this trip with one other person, does that count for anything? Ahhh no... it's better than nothing, but ask her out one-on-one. Why are you so nervous on doing that?
Dust Posted March 31, 2011 Posted March 31, 2011 I wouldn’t worry about if she likes you or not. Just ask her to do something and whether she says “yes” or “no” don’t worry about it. Try holding hands with her and kissing. It will probably get awkward if you just say “I like you, do you like me.”
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted April 24, 2011 Author Posted April 24, 2011 So I don't ask her out in words? Because I would rather do that, if so what do I say? (I'm going to do it soon)
Dust Posted April 25, 2011 Posted April 25, 2011 The sooner the better when it comes to romance. The internet and msg boards confusing place to get advice on women. Ask your father or a man you respect for advice if you feel you need some. We really have to learn these things through doing it ourselves can’t just have it explained. Just do what you think is best, and don’t stress about it. At your age (any age really) it’s best just to enjoy life and learn from your experiences. So, just do it already and what ever happens will happen and it will be wonderful.
Author IAMFOOTBALL Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 She is now my girlfriend. Thanks very much to all who helped. I will never return to these forums again but it's been a great ride. Once again, THANK YOU AND GOODBYE!!!
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