Beautiful28 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 I broke up with my ex 5 months ago, 2 weeks later he left me for my best friend and put it on facebook right away just to hurt me even more. I waited and is time to now have my boyfriend. Anyone needs a fake girlfriend on facebook? I'm pretty, I'm 28 and I don't want a real bf... just for facebook. Don't waste your time telling me how immature this is. You don't know what I've gone through, just if you're a nice looking guy who could use a fake gf, answer or send me a private message. 1
Miss_G Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 I am sure this guy has put you through hell going off with your best friend. Its an horrendous thing to do and completely shatters the illusion of who you thought they BOTH were and that's loyal to you. I know all you want to do is hurt your ex by letting him feel an ounce of what you're going through by having him believe you are dating someone else. It probably seem logical and I can totally understand why you would want to do so. But if your ex were to discover that said 'boyfriend' was a fake it would make you look a bit silly really and only add fuel to an already pretty well lit fire. Feelings for your ex will not just go away and I know you will be deeply hurting right now. Trust me, I am going through the same and I had a lot of trouble listening to others. I am just starting to accept outside opinions. My advice to you would be to forget fake boyfriends. They will not hurt your ex and may make you feel better for a little while but have no lasting happiness for you. What WILL hurt your ex AND make you happy is when you do find a great guy who is a million times the man your ex was. Judging by your ex, that won't be hard. Then you will be confident, happy and completely over the idiot ex. THAT will cause your ex immense pain. You will have moved on and become the bigger person. I know its a waiting game but it will come. I'm waiting too, and trust me, the thought of better things to come keeps me going.
depplover_1980 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 I am sure this guy has put you through hell going off with your best friend. Its an horrendous thing to do and completely shatters the illusion of who you thought they BOTH were and that's loyal to you. I know all you want to do is hurt your ex by letting him feel an ounce of what you're going through by having him believe you are dating someone else. It probably seem logical and I can totally understand why you would want to do so. But if your ex were to discover that said 'boyfriend' was a fake it would make you look a bit silly really and only add fuel to an already pretty well lit fire. Feelings for your ex will not just go away and I know you will be deeply hurting right now. Trust me, I am going through the same and I had a lot of trouble listening to others. I am just starting to accept outside opinions. My advice to you would be to forget fake boyfriends. They will not hurt your ex and may make you feel better for a little while but have no lasting happiness for you. What WILL hurt your ex AND make you happy is when you do find a great guy who is a million times the man your ex was. Judging by your ex, that won't be hard. Then you will be confident, happy and completely over the idiot ex. THAT will cause your ex immense pain. You will have moved on and become the bigger person. I know its a waiting game but it will come. I'm waiting too, and trust me, the thought of better things to come keeps me going. Bless you Miss G, you've just lost a couple of minutes of your life you'll never get back there. I think this is a troll.
Miss_G Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 The thought crossed my mind that it was a troll but then I thought if it was a real person I couldn't let them make themselves look like a right idiot ha ha! I'm nice like that you see
rajcs25 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 I will be Very Honest I dont know how to Contact you. But if you are in NY City, than i want a fake girlfriend just to make my ex understand my importance. We were not able to agree on rush marriage last month and she started looking at guys and found 4 guys in 1 month and she likes one of them and when i went to her , she is seeing me and we are seriously talking and still this girl tells me, because of my parents i cannot stop with these guys, i have to meet them, their familes, i cant meet you often, but yes i want to marry you in my heart but with eyes open. she is asking for my finances, when i showed her, she tells that her mom is not happy with that. its good enough to start with. Its definitely in several thousands but less than 100k. i have good paying job, but she has this other guy who might be getting more. She loved me to death according to her statements in last 9 months. Does the love to death dissapear in 1 month. We just broke up before one month. And she agrees i am caring, i am handsome, i am dashing, i am intelligent, i have good paying job, she loves me. What is this people. I am going nuts. I feel like breaking my head. I am extremely incomfortable. Oh Yeah, i just asked her little time and told her lets talk seriously about things before we get married. And thats what we are doing now. But when she is back, she is shopping around for guys and telling i have to see them so that my parents dont get hurt what on the earth is this If she tells mom my 5 negative things and does not tell my 5000 positive things, of course her mom will have a negative opinion. Where is love. where is that time spent. where is everything. she told me lets put differences on paper, i spent time put everything on paper for 1 day and we promised that we will follow, still she wants to see guys Guys here, make me a MAN now, tell me something, As a STRONG MALE here does not deserve this treatment What should i do??????????????????? I broke up with my ex 5 months ago, 2 weeks later he left me for my best friend and put it on facebook right away just to hurt me even more. I waited and is time to now have my boyfriend. Anyone needs a fake girlfriend on facebook? I'm pretty, I'm 28 and I don't want a real bf... just for facebook. Don't waste your time telling me how immature this is. You don't know what I've gone through, just if you're a nice looking guy who could use a fake gf, answer or send me a private message.
sally4sara Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 How did this guy leave you for your best friend if you broke up with him? Sounds like sour grapes to me and you're upset because your best friend picked up what you dropped. Its awkward, I'll give you that. I personally want nothing to do with a friend's ex, but you were done with him for a reason. That reason doesn't disappear just because he got with someone else right?
Author Beautiful28 Posted March 3, 2011 Author Posted March 3, 2011 First of all I'm real, wish i wasn't because the pain is too much. I broke up with him because I had a feeling he was cheating. It was through FB that I found out many things. Too painful to even go in detail about it. I'm so angry, breaking in tears as I post this... I feel so humiliated. Thanks to the first person who replied. I hate to think how right you are. It even gives me more pain because I want to get back at him so badly. But I feel now so stupid.
depplover_1980 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 Hey Beautiful, I'm sorry but your post seemed too ridiculous, like it was posted for a reaction. I can see now that you're genuine, but hope you realise your idea was no solution. We've all been in the pain you're in, but good news is we carry on and most of us get to the other side.
Call Me Al Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 As long as our fake relationship is consummated, Im down.
Author Beautiful28 Posted March 3, 2011 Author Posted March 3, 2011 Bless you Miss G, you've just lost a couple of minutes of your life you'll never get back there. I think this is a troll. Now I sound like a troll... lol I was trying to get straight to the point and my target was men. So i didn't feel like I needed to go into much detail. I do thank G for those 2 minutes of her time. But I understand what you meant.
depplover_1980 Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Oh no need to explain yourself to me, we're all here as friends and to help. How you feeling honeypie trollbum?
MidnightinMadrid Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Bless you Miss G, you've just lost a couple of minutes of your life you'll never get back there. I think this is a troll. Can someone pls tell me what is a troll?And what does a troll do?
depplover_1980 Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Hey Midnight, An internet troll is someone who deliberately goes on forums, comment pages etc and puts things that either stir trouble and strife, or posts fake problems/controversy to provoke reactions. Hope that helps. Though she IS NOT A TROLL in the end.
Miss_G Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Hey Beautiful. I am always happy to give advice! Not a problem and certainly not a waste of 2 minutes I have a nack for giving excellent advice to others but am pretty hopeless of following it myself. I am feeling hurt by my ex whom I have a child with and was planning to marry. I now feel all his loving words were fake. I know he must have loved me once but those feelings are no more. I am trying to come to the conclusion that we are over and cling to the hope that there are better things to come. You should also. I know you want your ex to know that you have moved on and are happy and, like I said in my first message, your ex will only feel regret when he sees you are truly happy! And one day you WILL be truly happy. You were alone, met your ex and were happy once. You will meet someone who will make you happy again and only then will you realise why things never worked with ex. I tell myself that the only reason I was ever was with ex is to have my son but my fate is not to be with him. It sounds corny but that is all I have to cling to these days. I am always here to help and your ex and best friend are terrible people. You don't need them in your life.
willowthewisp Posted March 4, 2011 Posted March 4, 2011 Hi beautiful, don't get a fake one, go out and get a real one, have some fun, waste no more tears on this jerk.
birdman40 Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 yeah, okay. I need a fake gf for a few months.....how do we im each other?
Beeotch Posted March 11, 2011 Posted March 11, 2011 I broke up with my ex 5 months ago, 2 weeks later he left me for my best friend and put it on facebook right away just to hurt me even more. I waited and is time to now have my boyfriend. Anyone needs a fake girlfriend on facebook? I'm pretty, I'm 28 and I don't want a real bf... just for facebook. Don't waste your time telling me how immature this is. You don't know what I've gone through, just if you're a nice looking guy who could use a fake gf, answer or send me a private message. Wow...I don't need to know what you've been through to be able to say that regardless of what you've been through this won't make you feel any better and is in no way justified. You are ofcourse free to do as you please....and please report back how the whole fake boyfriend thing worked out for you. My take on it though is that if your bestfriend and ex are now together and and you're 28 having fake FB boyfriends: that it is time to revamp your life altogether so that you can go into your 30s with a more stable life outlook. Goodluck!
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