young werther Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Well I met my ex last year, and we talked for 4 months before we started dating. Everything was so great between us, until a few weeks ago. Don't give me the "It obviously wasn't going well..." because she herself admits that she has never had anything else like this and that she loves me very much. The only thing that sucked about our relationship is the distance. We live 4 hours apart. At first this wasn't a big deal because she was planning to move close. Well after awhile, it got expensive seeing each other every weekend. So we decided to take a break until she moves. Well for the first week we acted like nothing changed, then the second week I decided to go NC and apparently so did she. That weekend, she visited her ex boyfriend and ended up making out with him. I was furious, but couldn't really be mad because I made out with some random girl also. We talked and decided to forgive each other and get back together. Well turns out, she isn't going to be able to move so we just broke up completely. She said that she still loves me so much and that she wants to get back together after graduation. (1-2 years) Also, she has deleted me off of fb along with all of my friends and family. The worst part is, she has a picture up of her with her ex as her default. What do you guys make of all this? should I move on?
depplover_1980 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 Aw poor you, I know how it feels because I tried to have a long distance relationship and it ended. It is so frustrating when you genuinely really adore them and know you'd have a good chance if you could just be together. I would say what would the possibility of seeing each other every other weekend be like, but she has shut the door. Did you discuss any options like that? Getting Skype to talk face to face and meeting when you can afford it?
Author young werther Posted March 3, 2011 Author Posted March 3, 2011 It was great for awhile, but we just can't afford to do that anymore. Also we didn't want to have to keep that up for a long time. I know if we lived near each other it would be great though. :/
depplover_1980 Posted March 3, 2011 Posted March 3, 2011 Hey, I think you've answered your own question now then with that haven't you? I would like to add that you need to move on and not have contact for a while as you make a clean break. Also you cannot 'hold on' for when she's back, other than trying the long distance thing. There is nothing to say months down the line you can't email and stay in touch, then if you both happen to be single when she's back then it's meant to be. However there are lots of pretty girls out there who you'll enjoy getting to know when you are ready.
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