Mustang5507blue Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 So I'll sum things up. She is 19 and I am 23, we met in college and I just recently graduated. We had been dating for 5 months and were very close. She said I was the most amazing guy ever and her friends were envy of her for having such a great boyfriend. Her best friend even said, "wish I could find someone like that". She took my virginity but apparently I was really good at sex. Because I always gave her multiple orgasms, like once she had 10 orgasms in 30 mins. All her past boyfriends always abused her and treated her like crap, she has been cheated on 3 times by others. Lately, she has been going through a lot of stressful events. She pays for her own apartment, she works, has college, has a sorority, her mom is stage 3 cancer, and our relationship. She told me she had never received flowers or anything on Valentines day, only a card and candy. So this past Valentines day I got her two dozen roses with 6 tulips and cooked her a kobe new york strip steak. She loved it and even bragged to her mom that she got better stuff than her mom gets. But anyway, since Valentines day things were changing. For example, she said she wanted space. I gave her some space. Than she said she wanted to be single but still in a relationship with me. She asked me if I would hurt myself if she ever had to break up with me (I suffer from depression), I said no. Back when we started dating her ex's would bother her and would try to get her to cheat on me. She didn't and I told her I wasn't comfortable with her talking to them. So she deleted them from Skype, her phone, and Facebook. And I do admit to her and to everyone, I do have jealousy issues to work on. This past Sunday we got into a fight over why she needed space. I decided to check her email and found out she was talking to an ex. I sent her a text asking why she was talking to the ex? Because she swore to God (she's very religious) that she wouldn't talk to them. She responded by saying she really need space ASAP. I text her back "your just mad because I caught you in a lie" she responded by saying "**** You, we are done" than "I'm sorry but goodbye, were done". This is my first "real" relationship and I love her and have tense feelings for her. I know she does to for me because she used to always tell me. Of course I tried calling and texting the night she broke up with me. But I stopped a few hours after breaking up and it has been three days with zero contact. She and her family removed me from Facebook and she changed her relationship status to single. So my parents, sister, and some internet sites have helped me keep my composure and not go pleading and begging for forgiveness. Which should be a surprise to her because I was very clingy. I sent her one text message to her yesterday saying the following: "Bri, we have unresolved business to take care of. I want my $130 I loaned you and my TV back this week. I might be an amazing guy but I am not dumb. When I get my stuff back this week you will be free to have all the space you want. I look forward to getting my stuff back and finishing this up, Steve" My sister and parents said it was a very powerful message and it was good. She has not responded, so what do I do? Her Facebook status says "I'll stay strong..." So what do I do? I want her back so bad, our family's clicked, and most importantly we did as well.. I have never felt such pain. I keep throwing up, going the bathroom, and feel sick when I eat. Any advice? Update, as of 3/1/11: I have heard from friends up at school that she is telling all my friends and her friends rumors about me. She has also deleted me from Facebook and deleted all of our pictures together. And I have only sent her 1 text message and that is it, it has been 4 days of no contact for both of us.
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