Women feeding me crumbs

[mr.goodguy]

I went out with this woman a handful of times. Nc for about two weeks. She broke it. I replied 4 days later (to an email message that just said hello). Today received a text about whether see saw me today. We live a ways from one another so obviosly it wasn't me....but looks like another crumb. I actually like this woman but not sure how or when to respond. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

[NoMagicBullet]

You say you went out a handful of times, then went NC. How did those dates go, and how did the two weeks of NC come about?

[mr.goodguy]

Dates started off really well but then tapered off. She sort of called things off, although not out right. You could read between the lines that something wasnt working on her end. Perhaps I was too eager/needy...which thanks to sites like this, I'm beginning to learn what works in a relationship and what sinks a relationship. After our last date, we went NC that lasted two weeks until she recently broke NC.

 

A side of me feels she is surprised that I havent sent her a text or called her (opposite of needy), and that is why she's communicating with me. Sort of the point of NC. Just hard to tell what her intentions are right now as neither of her messages have had anything substantially written in them.

[Eddie Edirol]

She wont just outright say "hey I wanna try again", so you can respond and say something ambiguous and non needy like - "Wasnt me". If she tries to keep it going, you see if she escalates it to going out. In the meantime, if she asks what have you been up to, dont tell her shyt. You say "Just keepin busy"

[mr.goodguy]

Thanks Eddie. Completely agree with your approach. I'll respond to her in a few hours.

[mr.goodguy]

Would a response like "wasnt me. must have been in your dreams" be too much? haha