kris-26 Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 So I have tried NC several times but now for some reason I feel some weight lifted. Everytime we went NC before I would tell him how i was sad or mad and let him see I was unhappy. But this time I said your right, I understand and agree you are not good for me. I wished him well. He said he appreciated me understanding his issues and asked where this sudden acceptance and understanding came from. I guess my question is was the better way to handle things this time. Like hey, I can survive with you. I will be ok. and not let him know that I am sad or having any issues? and also my friends seem to think that approach may cause him some issues to not be able to walk away. Because he is so used to me being sad but now If I seem happy and ok with moving on. Just curious a mans point of view on this.....does it make a difference?
Author kris-26 Posted March 2, 2011 Author Posted March 2, 2011 Would really be helpful if someone could reply....pref a male point of view.
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