Perplexed81 Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 This question is based on my last thread "Broke 68 Days NC, not what you think*. After 68 days NC obv by my above thread, I contacted her becuase I couldn't find my passport for my upcomming Euro trip and to keep from what I thought prior to contacting was the hassle of having to get another one. Although from everyone's comments her comments were indifferent and short, how come she even bothered to reply? and also, most ex's woulda waited i'm sure, she contacted me back right away? I know you guys are thinking i'm reading into this and I AM only becuase i'm curious, I've stood by the whole NC thing which is obvious and I don't think me reaching out to her for that was breaking all my work becuase of the reason I contacted her. If the ex didn't give a damn at all, she woulda just left me hanging, thats one thing i've noticed since day 1 of our breakup, although SHE HERSELF has NOT initiated contact ONCE, she has ALWAYS contacted me right back on everything, through the begging phase, through the trying to get her to meet me phase and now after all this time of NC I contact her for something I need and she has always contacted me back extremely fast. Something to this? maybe not? just figured I would get your suggestions, again, if she didn't give a damn, why give me the satisfaction of a reply, and better yet, why each time, she replies right away, hell she's replied faster to my texts post breakup than while we were together. Your thoughts?
Mcnulty Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Please don't get your hopes up, you maybe over analyzing things. She sounds like a decent lady with manners...that's all I'm afraid. Don't beat yourself up...you have an upcoming trip away, focus on that and enjoy!
Rose T Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Maybe after 68 days of NC she feels in neutral territory. It's like a clear margin of time has passed, underlining the fact that you two are over, so she now feels able to respond to you as politely as she would a friend or a business contact. I know you said that she was pretty much responding quickly this from the start - perhaps she was over you faster. I'm sorry. Basically, if she doesn't have any more hang ups about the break-up I think she would behave like this. I'm afraid I can't read any more into it than that.
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