alexlakeman Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 DON'T do it if you are not comfortable, please... If he can't accept it, move on.. That is a serious thing to give into if you are not into it.. I've been in numerous threesomes; two women and me, or another couple and us.. NO male touching sh)t... no penetrations, but all else goes.. but I have never asked certain ex girlfreinds to get involved in that b/c they were VERY SPECIAL, they were umm, low mileage, pure, clean, not slutty, etc.. and I respected those aspects of them.. Now the women I dated and did threesomes with... One was long term potential, but I guess she was more free , more wild, more.. Bottom line, you don't have to do it.. NOT that it's bad, I've always enjoyed it ...
Feelin Frisky Posted March 19, 2011 Posted March 19, 2011 Well, if you really want to know what this man thinks, I'd like to clout your b/f in the head and tell him to knock off the shi+. Frankly I don't know how you continue to be so sure about marrying him if he has this hangup about actually involving you in sex with a third party. There are a lot of guys who think they like this idea but don't really know that once it comes out of the realm of fantasy they lose any hint of control. But that aside, I for one would don't have such fantasies about someone I love. I don't even know how a person does have such a fantasy when they really are bonded in love. Love is so personal, it just doesn't compute with Mary, or Christine or Gloria or whoever the fu_k. I think it's good and healthful for people to have fantasies and it's even OK to once in a while entertain something that just floats into the mind that you'd never do if your need to get hot. But the world of fantasy is everyone's private domain to do with as they see fit. Having a fantasy about someone you really care about and then trying to make that a reality is a fool's game and I have little if any respect for someone who can't just get their realities and fantasies separated.
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