AnEnormousPanda Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 This girl and I used to be pretty chummy, we would walk back from class everyday together (almost a mile long walk) and occasionally get something to eat or drink after we would walk back. We would walk together to study sessions and have the occasional text conversation about her day and or mine. She seemed to give me all the right signs so I asked her out and she agreed to a movie date. The day before the date she literally fled from class and we didn't walk back together but I assumed she just had a place she needed to be. I texted her later on that day to discuss movie times because though we had decided on a movie, we had not chosen a time because movie times had not been published yet and she canceled the date because she said she had told her friend that she would hang out with them, but she said, "Let's just rain check for tomorrow." I thought that it was weird that she would make plans with a friend though she had agreed to the date but I let it go. This morning however before class she texted me asking if anything was due homework wise and if I would read and peer edit her paper for her. In class we talked a little but because we were watching a movie and I sit behind her we were unable to talk much but things didn't seem awkward or weird in any way. However after class it literally seemed like she was trying to escape me. she hurriedly walked out the door threw on her headphones and took a different route than the one we normally take when we walk back together. the path she took intersects with the path we normally take together, the path I walked at about the halfway point and she ended up walking behind me but she seemed to do her best to stay a good distance behind me. Why would she agree to go on a date, then cancel, then do her best to avoid me?
youaretheone Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 It looks like she is not that interested and she might also have some plans to use your love interest in favor of herself.
Mrlonelyone Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Here's another option. The girl is shy or awkward and would rather avoid you than risk making a fool of herself around a guy she likes. Just try talking to her.
Andy_K Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 she agreed to a movie date You need to clarify this. Was she 100% aware that it was a DATE - with romantic intent on your part - or is it possible she originally assumed it was just a friends hanging out kinda thing? If the latter, there's a good chance she later realised your real intentions (possibly after chatting to a girlfriend of hers) and bailed out as fast as she could because she 'doesn't see you that way'. She then backs off a mile to avoid any potential awkwardness.
Eddie Edirol Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Make sure she wasnt trying to use you to help her with her paper. You need to chase her down and find out why she is avoiding you, assume that she doesnt like you. Assume her answers are a lie. But at least see what she says.
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