lexsim Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Hey guys, it's been a month I have broken up with my ex girlfriend. I met her last week. I got to know she went out with a guy she barely knew. I told her it's okay to let it out and I'm ready to accept the fact that the guy is interested in her and she is ready for a new option. But she kept explaining and telling me that she is not having any interest in that guy and they went out just as friends. But I'm confused, why so eager to explain this to me? I did confess to her that my feelings on her did not even change a single bit ever since the break up. Knowing this, I've asked her how she felt for me in return...Does she still have any feelings for me. She answered, "I'll choose not to anwer you on this". What does this mean? Guys and girls, I'm confused...
D78 Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 Your first post says you argued too much, you controlled her, and she got tired of it. I interpret her non-answer as an attempt to avoid hurting you. She cares about you, but she made it clear that she can't be in a relationship with you. So, maybe her real answer to your question is yes; maybe it's no. Either way, it would hurt you. So, she's just not going to answer. I think the explanation about the other guy may be the same thing. If you really want her back, maybe you should respect her wishes. Every time you profess your feelings to her, you're sending the message that the only thing that matters is what you want.
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