My ex and my best friend, these new thoughts have made it so much harder

[roman_pavluchenko]

It's been a month since she broke up with me. We dated for 2 months and ever since she dumped me out of the blue things haven't been the same, i know 2 months isn't very long, but i have never trusted someone/cared about someone so much in my life and she was pretty much everything i saw in a girl.I really liked her, for about 6 months before we even really got to knew eachother and when she finally said yes to me and for those 2 months i was really happy. I've been in no contact with her for 2 weeks and she hasn't tried any form of contact with me despite the fact she said she wanted to remain good friends.

I was getting better, although sometimes

i had to fight to put on a smile and stop myself from looking down, i've been talking with other girls at University which i started this week and although there are a lot of hotties i never feel anything towards them, i just think about my ex. Exept now, im in a really bad place again. I was hoping that maybe she would realise what she lose sooner or later as she said i was the nicest/sweetest guy she had ever met but she didn't feel the same anymore, she didn't really have a set reason as to why she broke it off, so of course i would think no contact would bring her back. The thing is, by going no contact i expected her to contact me and ask me out for coffee to talk things over and maybe work something out, but instead she has asked my best mate out for coffee.

 

Who knows why, i noticed they had been getting closer since i broke up, like they always talk to eachother on facebook and when we're in a group they're usually always around eachother, but i asked my friend if he liked her and he got angry at me and said he wasn't a dog and that he wouldn't do that to me and he sent her a message saying that he didn't like her more than a friend and that he wanted someone else to go to make it less awkward - so her best friend asked if she could go and she said okay, but it was odd because she had never asked anyone out for coffee before, not even me when we were dating.

 

At first i was pretty happy, i either thought great i have a reason why she dumped me so now i can move on, or maybe she wants to go talk to my two closests friends about me to see if i want her back still. After thinking about it thoroughly i figured that the second option has to be false, as she invited my best friend out first and wanted to go alone and it was him who suggested another person so it isn't awkward. I'm guessing she wants to get closer to my best mate, she never wanted to do things 1 on 1 with him before/whilst we were dating, they had been friends for many years. The weird thing is, all my ex's friends tell me there is NO way she would ever date him, they are complete opposites. She is quiet and hates being the center of attention, he is loud/agressive and is ALWAYS the center of attention. One time i got drunk and started swearing, not at her, but in general and this really annoyed her. He gets drunk and throws her in the pool, wrestles her a bit, then starts calling her a dog and a sl**. What should i do, please provide more than move on, because i don't know how.

 

edit : They're going out for coffee today, her best friend keeps telling me it's probably just to talk, like a catch up, but they saw eachother a few days ago. Why would she suddenly be wanting to catch up with just my best friend, outside our group of 8 close friends?