seanmathews3 Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 Girlfriend and i broke up a week ago, dated for 5 months, "loss of feelings" and not ready for relationship was the excuse for breaking up, mainly her choice but a little mutual too, we both want to go back to how things were, but right now we are giving eachother space, basically no contact untill we are ready to either become something more or work towards something more, so who know when that will be, if it even happens, but there is a lot more to it but here is the question... we still have the facebook pictures up and the "in a relationship" status, but we hid the status so no one can see, but what im wondering is how me moving on will affect her.. obviously the less of her i have around me the less it will hurt me and mess with my head and i will move on sooner, but i look at it in three ways 1) i make it look like im over it and moving on, take all pictures and stuff off 2)i keep it all up for a while and slowly slowly take it off so she knows im still fighting for something and still have hope for us/ and miss us. 3) just fallow her, do what she does, change it when she changes it all of them have possible outcomes but im looking for one that will help her realize that she wants to go back and have something more with me.. pretty much make her realize what its like when im gone.. but also i dont want it to look like i just shut the feelings off "just like that" and make it look like i dont want to give something a shot or something like that.. i dont want her to see me moving on as me no longer interested or not caring ya know.. its hard to explain but i have a feeling some of you know what im talking about
chris1987 Posted March 2, 2011 Posted March 2, 2011 I would go in to nc and see if she comes back. But after 5 months and this already happened I would move on. I will keep happening.
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