kalena9488 Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 He wants us to get back together. I really try hard not to be ugly and make a bad situation worse. But, I think that my handling of him is going to have to get ugly just to get him to leave me alone. I just don't understand...we were together for almost 2 years, lived together for at least 1.5 and never during that time did he live up to his end of the financial bargin. (Meaning we share the expenses for the house 50/50) Then he is also a pot smoker and I found it several times and he always denied it. He never would do anything to make it better and never followed through with any of his promises to me. So why now is he so ready to make and keep those promises. He says he loves me so much and my response is well you didn't just start loving me so what made you wait till I was ready to move on to decide to take our relationship seriously and do something about it. Even though he tells me he loves me and he just wants me in his life etc, etc....I just can't be feel like he just wants me around because I have no kids living at home, a 4 bedroom house, a good job, a retirement etc, etc....I mean I have a few things not the best by any means but good enough. He's been married four times. When we met he was getting a divorce well two years later and he's still not divorced. A few people tell me he's just a user and this is what he does and it's just hard for me to understand how somone would spend so much energy in trying to deceive someone. I ask him some pretty hard questions and never get anything but general answers. So, I can't help but feel like why would I give you any more time from my life. I'm so ready to just be done with this. I just need some reassurance. I'm right aren't I he's a loser, has always been and he has just found what my weakness is and continually works it.
Trimmer Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 Sounds to me like you're pretty much answering your own question...
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