dois20 Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 So i was visiting my friends in another city, some girls came over, we all went out, in the end i walked this girl home. We seemed to really get along and then we ended up talking for quite a bit on the walk home (our conversation sounded like a date lol), and then when we got back to her place she kissed me, and then we ended up making out for quite a while, over an hour in fact, but nothing else happened, i then went back to my buddies house and then me and my friends moved on the next morning. So, where do i go from here, shes a friend of a few of my friends but shes not from where i live and it'll be quite a long time before we see each other again, if ever. I don't even know if i like her, maybe i feel a little attached because it was my first kiss. We're friends on facebook, it was by no means awkward that night but now it starts to feel a little bit cause all my friends know what happened, and come on, its facebook... So, should i consider this like a one night stand (without the sex lol), and just completely forget about it and her. Or, should I try maintain some sort of contact over facebook, what should I do?
lululucy Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 How old are you and how far do you live from this city?
Lilmisus Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 Honestly..I think it's best to let it go. It's your friend's girlfriend after all, and unless things end with them, one of you is probably going to wanting or expecting something more, and while they're together, that can't, or shouldn't happen. If she tries adding you on Facebook or continuing communication, it's your own call about what to do, but just remember that your friendship is on the line here. Not only that, but her friendships as well. Sucks that your first kiss happened under such conditions, but I think that the best thing you could do right now is just look forward to first (single) girl to share your second kiss with.
phenotype22 Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 I am say chalk this up to a great night and great kiss with fond memories of that moment for years to come, and leave it at that. I have made out with friends' friends previously after night of partying, weddings, etc. But, at the end of the night/weekend, it was just enjoying the moment, and life moves on. Well, that's my opinion.
Trimmer Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 Wait - it's not really clear: is she - or is she not - the girlfriend of one of your guy friends? (Or anyone's girlfriend, for that matter?) Your thread title seems to indicate that she is, but you don't seem to mention this pretty important dynamic anywhere in your post...
baguette Posted March 1, 2011 Posted March 1, 2011 Need to know these things: age, distance, and relationship status!
Author dois20 Posted March 1, 2011 Author Posted March 1, 2011 yes sorry, sorta figured that out after. she's just a friend of a friend, no romantic attachement. In fact, she knows a few of my high school friends just through university.
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