gsly Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 So here's my situation, to start from the beginning i met this girl while in class and we went on a few dates which finally let to the first kiss..after that her and I just moved on, she explained how she was in a relationship for 4 years and wasnt sure she was ready to move on. And the fact that i think i was txt'ng her alot lol. I respected her decision and told her being friends is fine, so pretty much here and there we talked..nothing special. Well after my bad break up with my ex last summer her and i went for ice cream and it got brought up about starting to date again and she shot me down cuz litterally the night that i dumped my ex we hung out and she thought that it wasnt right. we havent really seen each other since then. now for the fishy part: early last week I sent her a txt asking her what was new and I pretty much asked her to hang out since we havent seen each other in almost a year(i wasnt expecting a date or anything). so i said lets catch up by going to dinner and catching a movie. suprisingly she's like it's a date then..so we planned it for the following sunday night because she was out of town til then. so i told her to let me know when she got in town. well she didnt call or anything..which i guess im fine with cuz i the roads were bad and i didnt want to bother her..so we reschedled for last night. saturday night i sent her a txt asking if we were still on, and didnt get a response til about a hour ago saying she was at her parents and forgot her phone, so we rescheduled again for next week(hopefully third times the charm)..pretty much were just gunna meet and go to dinner(keep things simple) now am i doing something wrong here? is this a sign that she's not getting back? or am i wasting my time again?
xpaperxcutx Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Well I can tell you, two rejections usually mean the third times the same. You seem adamant about dating but she's extremely lukewarm. I think you're wasting your time.
Author gsly Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 well she said she was sorry and she picked the date/time. all i said was the place were i was thinking of eating and ok..i never planned on it being a date until she said it was fine being a date..would it make me look bad if I asked her if she wanted it to be a date, im fine if it's not a date or not so in other words i'd leave it up to her..i wouldnt say it was a rejection
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