Username101 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 So here's the story. My girl of 8 months says she needs some space to me about 2 weeks ago. We left on good terms, a hug, wave, and good bye. And we would sit down and talk about what happened in a week or 2 and see where we were at. So flash back on how we got started. She was friends with a good friend of mine, and we got introduced at a party in Feb 2010 when she was back from school on vacation (7 hours away). I live about an hour and a half away from her home. But during this time we started talking and getting to know each other. Come summer time, we did everything together. I took a week vacation and stayed at her place for a good portion of time, things were good. During that time, we decided to do the boyfriend/girlfriend thing. She then left back for school in July, we kept in constant contact all the time. She came home for winter break and this is when I think things started to go south. She was kicked out of school (long story) about a week after X-mas. Went down to school, packed up her things, and myself and her family moved back up home. From the time she got home on a Saturday, she had a full time job starting on Monday. This is a complete change of life style she was used to. So, I continued to come down to her place on Fridays after work and stay there until Sunday night/Monday morning. Fast forward to 1 week ago. I have gone no contact for a week. Saturday morning, I give her a call to see if we can have that sit down, and we do, for about 2 hours. We talk about how we feel and put everything on the table, we even shared a few smiles and laughs. At the end of the day, we both felt like we moved way too quickly during the relationship, and being that we only see each other full time on the weekends only we kinda smothering to her. But, she still want's to have her time alone. As much as it sucks, I have to respect that. I left the ball in her hands to contact me if/when she is ready to talk. Which I have a strong feeling she will, and if she doesn't then I am sure we will see each other around. My question is, is this over? Is there anything I can do in the mean time?
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