turokturok5 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 My ex asked out my best mate to coffee, he responded with an abusive message saying that he didnt like her anymore than a friend and that he would never dog me out like that, feels so good
Bluebelle38 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Why is it so funny? I'd be mortified if any of my exes asked out my best friend.
Author turokturok5 Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 because i got answers to everything i wanted for 3 weeks in 10 minutes. Found out that my mate isnt a dog whos trying to get with my ex and found out the real reason my ex dumped me
Bluebelle38 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 You think she broke up with you because she wanted to be with him? And that is all the proof you need because she waited 3 weeks to ask him for coffee? Sorry, am a bit confused. Will have to read over your story.
Author turokturok5 Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 nah she broke up with me saying i was too clingy and all this other bs. We're part of a pretty close group and i noticed that she had been getting closer and closer to my best friend, i thought at first it was him. I confronted him about it though and he explained, so im just assuming that was the reason she dumped me
Bluebelle38 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Ah, I see. Well, if you are all friends is it possible she actually just wanted to go for coffee? I dunno if I would assume she broke up with you to date your mate. But then I suppose only she knows that. You seem to be OK with it, I just meant if it was me I'd be pretty down. Glad to hear you aren't tho
Author turokturok5 Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 yeah true, problem is now im thinking she may be telling him that shes found another guy and she wants to tell my best mate so that he can tell me. god dam i hate how my mind works
Bluebelle38 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I suppose the place you need to be in is not to care if she is seeing someone. I know how hard it is, but at some point she will meet someone else. You aren't long split so go easy on yourself for wondering... but in time you truly won't care. And that's a great place to be.
Graceful Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 yeah true, problem is now im thinking she may be telling him that shes found another guy and she wants to tell my best mate so that he can tell me. god dam i hate how my mind works I thought it was hysterically funny, too, to be honest! I would feel as you do, if my friend stood up for me and told my ex off for asking him out FOR ANY REASON. I don't care if she asked him for coffee, even if it was just to talk. Your friend put her in her place, and put you first. YAY FOR YOU!!! And this makes me ask you ... did you write her a note "thanking" her for anything? You might want to re-think that idea ...:rolleyes:
Author turokturok5 Posted March 1, 2011 Author Posted March 1, 2011 yeah i found it pretty funny too, haha nope i decided that she should write me a thank you letter. Exept its a bit different now, she also invited her best friend, who is pretty close to me. Now i'm not as happy as i was before because im thinking of all the reasons as to why she might be inviting the two people im closest to out to "talk"
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