my body is a cage Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 This summer I had a very intense fling. He came to visit me, I left for Europe, he said he was going to visit me there, but never did... drama and heartbreak ensued. Now, 7 months later, we have decided "have coffee." Yikes. I am still not over him. I don't know what his motives are.. he is very hard to read/ can be very shy. We are in the same group of friends, but do not speak that often when we are out, mostly due to tension. Although, he has said something like, "it was good seeing you," once or twice. Help?
runner Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 i vaguely recall your story, but that doesn't matter now i suppose. best thing for you would be to focus on your own motive, nevermind his for now.
eerie_reverie Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 From my recollection, this guy is a s!ht show ashsole, so my advice is to go to therapy instead to figure out why you like that.
utterer of lies Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 This summer I had a very intense fling. He came to visit me, I left for Europe, he said he was going to visit me there, but never did... drama and heartbreak ensued. Now, 7 months later, we have decided "have coffee." Yikes. I am still not over him. I don't know what his motives are.. he is very hard to read/ can be very shy. We are in the same group of friends, but do not speak that often when we are out, mostly due to tension. Although, he has said something like, "it was good seeing you," once or twice. Help? You are weak and vulnerable and a good target for him to get sex. He already left you once so don't expect him to hang around for too long.
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