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So girlfriend and I broke up a week ago.. long story short, dated for 5 months and had a good relationship.. her story is she kinda felt the feelings plateau and she says she wants things to go back to how they were when we first dated.. it seems a part of her still wants this but something in her head is fighting against herself. we talked about being friends and re building the friendship and working towards something but it'll be that hard..

so im by far started falling in love with her and she is my first love. i keep fighting for her no matter what the situation is.

 

im just wondering how to let someone, you find to be soooo amazing and have such a big part and impact in your life and that person being "your kind of girl" in every single way possible... go. we have a good time hanging out, talking, doing things together, and our sex life is by far amazing.. how do you just let someone like that go? i know i cant change her feelings...

 

my only options are..

 

move on without being friends with as little contact as possible so she realizes what it will be like with me out of the picture.. hoping for something to happen (i see this as she will either like or not like having me out of the picture.. its a gamble either way)

 

or

 

move on, start over and rebuild friendship.. with hope of something happening.. (its just the being friends thing i don't want her to get used to and end up having no hope at all for something. no guy likes the just friends thing)

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