samanthaB Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Me and my ex broke up about two years ago, but stayed on and off for about a year. During that time I hate to say it but i treated him like crap, and he put up with it. I still loved him but I dont know, the way he stuck around and cared about me through that got me addicted to fights. Anyway as soon as he began to move on, I realized how wrong I was - and we got back together for a few months. After a rocky couple of weeks he left my for my best friend. They lasted for a month or two, before she dumped him. After that I got back in contact with him and again we were on and off, but he had absolutely no feelings for me. Then out of nowhere he just stopped responding to me, after we celebrated his birthday. The day was fine and we had a lot of fun, imo. Under normal circumstances I'm not good at moving on, but this is even harder. Its been a few months and, although i hate to admit it, I still try to get in contact with him every few weeks. I just can't seem to move on at all no matter how hard I try. He wont say a word to me, but we left things off perfectly fine. I don't know what to do.
Author samanthaB Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 I tried to keep this really short cause i dont think people are gonna want to read all about our life, but I really care about him, and although I'm happy now everything reminds me of him, and every unresponded text messaged and ignored call kills me and leaves me upset for days. I dont understand how someone can just stop caring about another person so completely, and how do I stop caring too!
Denillad Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Sam B. No contact my dear, u have to try to move on though it's not easy. I broke up with my ex of 5 yrs 2 yrs ago n for 2 year Ive been chasing. He has never actively tried to work things out and strung me along all this time, just wanting sex n friends thing. 3 wks ago ago I changed my number and decide to move on for good. Not long ago it hurt like he'll n I'm not goin to say I'm totally over it but I can sense I'm finally moving on and I dont feel like contacting him. I wondered why I didn't have these feelings before but I guess I had to come to this point but I just wish I did this over a year ago n saved myself the pain n embarrassment if chasing him. So all u can do is try hard. You may love him dearly but he may not be the one for u but u need him to realize things for himself. Just try to keep nc contact and truly accept the accept the loss of that relationship and focus on u and ur future. It's hard but it's done everyday.
Author samanthaB Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 Yeah thats the only thing I can do, which sucks but whatever I know hes not the one at all. I'm sorry that you had to go through the same thing, we deserve better then that!
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