AA11390 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Last night I went on a date with this girl I met about a month ago, and now I feel really uneasy because I don't know how to interpret things. First we went to dinner, and our conversations went much better than I could've hoped for, with a lot of laughs exchanged. After dinner we went to an arcade, and had a great time, and I got great vibes from the body language. Following the arcade things started to get tricky... After the arcade I took her to a club, and there we met up with 2 of her sisters, and some of her friends. I didn't want to make her feel uneasy, so I let her take the lead and she was the first to initiate dancing. While we were dancing she seemed really tense, and not into me. We danced for a while and then she wanted to stop, so we went to the side of the club where her sister was hanging out. After we stopped dancing she made little to no eye contact with me what so ever. After a while, we moved into her group of friends where everyone was dancing in a circle, and she would not look at me once. We then left the club with her sisters and friends, and she wouldn't even stand next to me while we were walking, seemingly avoiding me?? When we parted ways for the night her sisters were with her, and I said goodbye to her in the same way I did to her sisters, just a kiss on the cheek. She also told me to text her when I got home, which i did... So I texted saying I got home, and she responded positively saying "thanks for a great night, it was really nice getting to know you:)" I responded with something similar and added an inside joke, which she also responded positively to. Today I texted her, and she didn't respond in any weird tone, and everything seemed fine.. Anyway, I guess I'm reading into this in such detail because I actually really enjoyed my time with her, she really impressed me and I want things to continue. However, being a Psychology major, and priding myself on interpreting different situations, I'm so thrown off as to the way things played out at the club. I mean she hasn't seriously dated anyone, and she came off as very inexperienced with guys. Also, I feel like theres nothing I could've done so wrong while dancing with her to turn her off because I played it really safe. Other than her maybe not being on a certain level of comfort with me, I don't know any other reason it could've played out that way. I want to so badly say the date was a success, but I really am lost on this one, and its driving me crazy! P.S No other girl has EVER made me analyze a situation anything close to the way this girl did. I cant get her outta my brain, helppp meee!!!!!
Imajerk17 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 I have a better idea instead of asking us. Come up with a good second date, and CALL her.
Author AA11390 Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 unfortunately its more complicated than that. I go to school 4hrs away from home, and I just happened to be in town for the weekend. So there won't be a second date for at least a month, leaving me wondering
Imajerk17 Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Still call her in a few days. The date went well and you like her and so far, her signs seem somewhat positive too. Stop looking to her to lead.
florence of suburbia Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 Is a mindbobbling date when the girl is so hot that she turns you into a bobble head?
Author AA11390 Posted February 28, 2011 Author Posted February 28, 2011 haha its when a date disturbs your internal equilibrium so much you feel insane!!!!!
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