roman_pavluchenko Posted February 28, 2011 Posted February 28, 2011 She dumped me after 2 months, didn't exactly tell me why, but her friend said it was because I was too clingy, as I was her first boyfriend. It's been a month since then and I've had a lot to think about and I can see where I went wrong on my part. I told her before after like a week that I was fine with the break-up and that I hope we can still be "good friends" but I don't want this anymore and at the time i was still in a pretty bad place so i didnt mean it when i said it was ok. It's been a month now and i havent really talked to her at all/she hasn't contacted me as i hoped. I just want to let her know that I understand what happenned and I'm thankful for the times we had. I truly believe i was actually dumped because i was her first boyfriend and we're going to uni soon and she just wants to try different relationships. She emphasised this when she kept telling me "we're going to uni soon, theres going to be so many other girls that are better than me" i took this as a hint that she was saying "im going to find so many different guys that are better than you" Should i send her a message, just saying something like i understand why you did it and im thankful for the times we had, goodbye. And not contact her again, or should i just forget about it and let my actions speak, she saw me the other day with another girl and she was furious. Any advice on what to say, or to say anything at all?
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